Should we save our middle name in case we have another girl in the future

[yellowflowers]

Am pg with no 2, not finding out the sex.

Turns out in all our name discussions my second fave girls name is the one we used as dd's middle name and I wish we'd kept it in case this one is a girl.

So now we have managed to come up with a third and fourth favourite girls name but should we save fourth favourite name in case we have a third girl in future as we would like three children?

Why don't you use the middle name you have given to your DD for the new baby's first name. It doesn't matter that they share a name it is not as if their first names are the same and I think it is quite sweet to have your second daughter with the same middle name as the first!!

Culturally I can't. We only use names of dead relatives who lived a long time.