Desperately need help, DH and I worlds apart when it comes to names!

[bookqueen]

As the title says, DH and I have such unbelievably different taste in names that our twins (due january 19) are never going to get a name! We've looked at all of the ONS statistics and I don't like any of the names in the top 100 but also hate the whole old people names thing! On the other hand DH loves all of these vintage style names. We do, however, agree that we don't want anything popular. We already have two DS (Flynn and Dashiell) and a DD (Thea). We know the sex of the twins (one girl and one boy) but we just can't think of any names we love. Can you make any suggestions based on what I've waffled on about above?

Scarlett and Oscar?

Girls

Arianne
Amelia
Natalie/a
Genevieve
Meredith
Harriet
Henrietta
Clara
Maia
Elspeth (elsie)
Caitlin
Tabitha

Boys

Alexander
Nathaniel
Elijah
Euan
Rhys
Duncan

Meredith
Corinna
Meryl

Arlo
Laurence
Wreford

Verity and Wesley

Thurston for a boy

Love Meredith, Clara & Harriet too.

At the moment OH & I only have 1 name we both like, so I feel your pain!

Elodie
Zara
Violet

Alistair
Ross
Gabriel

Ooh yes to Wesley.

Wesley and Hermione
Wesley and Violet
Wesley and Alice
Wesley and Vivienne
Wesley and Florence

I love Arlo and Laurence! Zara and Clara are lovely too.

Are there any names in your families - parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles etc., either 1st or middle names, that you might like? My family tree was the 1st place I turned to for inspiration, though didn't end up using any of them!

Oooh I love your DCs' names :)! What about these...

Heath
Roman
Abraham
Obadiah
Barnaby
Gabriel

Hazel
Martha
Miriam
Esther
Genevieve
Astrid
Ingrid

?

Blythe and Vaughn
Xanthe and Linus
Beatrix and Atticus
Aurora and Raphael
Honor and Cosmo
Ianthe and Inigo
Magdalen and Ferdinand
Frances and Conrad
Cressida and Lysander
Mirabel and Barnaby

"Ianthe and Inigo???" Maggie are you serious?

For boys how about Simon, Laurence, Guy, Toby, Spike
Girls - I dunno really - ruby,maeve, Roaxanne

Meredith and Laurence are lovely.

Beatrix
Harriet
Blythe
Margot

Hector
Rufus
Gilbert
Milo

I also love Saskia, Heath, Roman, Cosmo and Astrid. DH also suggested Cosima, don't know if it's a bit frilly though?

Marlowe and Aphra?
Leander and Artemis?

You have my utmost sympathy. DH and I don't agree either and we've got less than 2 weeks left. He likes girly frilly flowery names. I like strong names. It's quite likely that this child will never ever be named.

Gwendoline, it's awful isn't it! I know that if it weren't for DH's taste our DC's names would be completely different!

Amos
Cornelius
Lysander
Matheius
Hugo
Rufus

Hermione
Helena
Lydia
Amelia
Isadora
Martha

????

Cary and Myrna

Isadora is amazing, as is Lysander!

There is a little boy in dgs nursery class called Hector[reminded by Lysander] which is really unusual but not too extreme [there is also a Ptolemy!!].
Girls names are a bit more awkward-I like Miranda and Elsie.