Hi
I am reading with interest your very relevant stories that I myself are currently undergoing too during this very emotional time for myself and my husband.
I am pregnant with identical twins and now at 18 weeks today, (Wednesday 22nd Sept). Only on Friday the 17th I discovered that one of my little twins has Spina Bifida and brain development problems.
After an incredibly distraught weekend, we are now considering selective termination of one of the twins.
This is a harrowing decision for us, as I am sure it has been for anyone in our situation, to have to make but we believe that the sick twin will not have a good quality of life.
We therefore want to ensure that whoever performs this procedure is completely qualified, professional and is very skilled in this procedure, perhaps with a multi birth specialism. Although we know it carries a MC risk, regardless of who performs it.
I was really looking for a recommendation of who you know is well versed in this area?
I am seeing my consultant again later, who will of course make his own recommendations but we are not from the London area and we will have to travel to London for this procedure and I was wondering where was the best hospital and perhaps who the consultants are?
I would greatly appreciate hearing from you, your help would be immensely valuable at this terrible time.
Warm regards