NT count of 6mm. Also mentioned cysts? Scared and confused

[shedandheidi]

Hi,
I can't find anything recent on this, so started thread here. Please let me know if I shouldn't have*
I had my 12 week scan today and it was not pleasant to say the least. I struggled to keep tears back.
Anyway I have just turned 40, this is a first pregnancy and baby was dated 13 weeks. So far everything has been going well, So I thought..

The sonographer began really positive and was laughing at my baby with it's little legs crossed. She then abruptly stopped, apologised and went to get someone.
To cut a long story short the baby's is nuchal measuring 6 mm and notes say this is suggestive of a cystic hygroma. I'm sure cysts on the nuchal were also mentioned. I am due back tomorrow for a test that will shed more light, I can't remember the name but they take a little from the placenta. It takes 2 weeks to get the results, I don't know if I can wait that long, but needs must.
I am a realist so I'm not expecting heartwarming stories but can anyone shed any light for me? All of this is something I know little about.

@shedandheidi I’m so sorry to hear this, it’s such a tough and confusing time and you will have so many thoughts and questions running through your mind. We had a diagnosis of Patau syndrome 7 weeks ago at 15 weeks and it really helped me to speak to the ladies at ARC. They’re so understanding and have lots of experience with your situation. Sending you strength during this difficult time xx

Yes, they'll give you the full results. Don't worry, you don't need to do anything yet. Let the initial shock subside and see how you feel.

How are you doing OP? Thinking of you.

Thinking of you OP.
Exactly a year before you (on Dec. 6th, 2017) I found out that my unborn child had cystic hygroma (NT was 11mm). I declined CVS.
I am thankful that I did not have to make the terrible decision you are facing at the moment - our little boy died and I gave birth to him on Jan. 9th.

Please don't take a hasty decision under pressure - whatever it is. You are the one who is going to live with the consequences of the choice you are going to make. Take all the time you need.