Hi all. Looking for advice please.
I'm 17+5 today with dc3 - we have dd who is 2yrs 11m and I mc dc2 at 12 weeks almost a year ago.
When I went for my 12 week scan, baby was partying so hard in there, the sonographer couldn't get the NT measurements she needed so I was put down for a quad blood test. Those results came back this week and I've been given a 1 in 85 chance of ds.
Despite initial shock and lots of emotional outbursts, I am not feeling too down or worried about this possibility. First off, we don't believe in abortion (unless for a properly full on medical reason/baby wouldn't live beyond a few weeks) and secondly, if I was backing a racehorse at 85/1, I'd be backing a rank outsider.
Therefore, we have already decided to refuse the invasive tests (amnio/CVS) because of the miscarriage risk (don't want to go through that again!) and because it wouldn't make a difference to us in terms of continuing with the pregnancy.
We have a consultation at the hospital on Monday and I was just wondering what I should be asking while we are there? Is there anything obvious I need to know? I was thinking about whether we would get extra scans, would have more medics at the labour/birth, do we get more checks in those first few weeks? Just looking for advice really, please, ladies....