Hi there. I am sorry to hear you are going through this. I was just like you 2 years ago with my daughter Matilda. I found out through blood tests (TORCH screen) that I had a new CMV infection during my pregnancy. That was at 21 weeks and it was a stressful time - I know how you are feeling right now. Firstly, like HoorayHenri said, say positive and stay strong. And take each week as it comes.
There will be a lot of take in and you will might have a lot of questions. When I found out about CMV, I did contact CMV Action for support. Knowledge and having an understanding of what you can ask for and extra support is so so helpful.
As I was 21 weeks, I was offered the animo to see if my baby also had the infection. They also re-tested my booking in bloods to see if it was detected then. The animo came back positive - the infection had passed but the positive thing was that my scan at 21 weeks was very good and showed no signs of the infection. Through analysing the blood tests, we could work out I had caught CMV around week 16-17.
I had regular scans + an foetal MRI later in the pregnancy too look at brain development. I also attending weekly hospital appointments as my iron levels dropped dramatically. The Royal Free in north London were fantastic in caring for me during this time.
By the time Matilda was born, we were mostly worried about her hearing. She did pass her newborn hearing but we also had to have a cranial ultrasound, eye text, urine and blood tests too.
Matilda is 2 next week and, so far, shows no signs of the CMV infection. That's not to say we are out of the woods, we still have to have her hearing tested regularly until she is 5. One consultant told me that longer things appear to be normal, the better the outcome. You could say that for pregnancy as well.
The outcomes of a CMV infections varies in each pregnancy so do stay strong and stay positive.
You can read my story of CMV on the CMV Action website too - which might give you more detail and might be able to help?
cmvaction.org.uk/our-stories/matilda
I volunteer with CMV Action as well, so if you wanted to chat or email me, we could arrange that. Don't go through this alone - Kat xx