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To think it’s unkind to hoot at someone stuck on a box junction?

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AsIfByMagic123 · 11/11/2022 13:18

I am an utter cretin, I know, and never should have entered the box junction without being certain I could clear it, as per the Highway Code. I’ve done the theory test and know this full well. Quite how I ended up in that situation I’m not exactly sure. I’ve had a lot on my mind lately (waiting for biopsy results in particular, plus my father had surgery yesterday) but that’s no excuse. I genuinely thought I could clear it but was mistaken and ended up stuck in front of a red light.

People, understandably, were absolutely furious. But by the time it had happened, there wasn’t realistically anything I could do. Driving through the red light would not only have been illegal but could have caused an accident.

I really wish people would have some compassion and realise it was a genuine mistake made by someone under stress. We all slip up from time to time. None of us are perfect.

Yet maybe some of those I inconvenienced were on their way to hospital appointments or to be at the bedside of dying loved ones. Go on, flame me even more and make feel bad! I feel like I deserve it today. I’m a total arse, aren’t I?

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hopeishere · 11/11/2022 13:28

It's annoying but you don't enter the box unless it's clear to leave it surely? Not that you hope you can leave it?

doingitforyorkshire · 11/11/2022 13:35

It's inconsiderate to get yourself in a position where you block the junction, knowing the rule but ending up there anyway. You just don't go unless you can clear it. It's unkind to take a punt on it, block the junction and expect people to be fine with it. Why should they be? The rule isn't anything complicated.

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