To have a moan? Haha

DH told me something like that about his colleagues wife so I said “oh great are you going to start making my lunch” then and wisely he didn’t say anything.
i have a son and I’m intent that he won’t expect a woman to do everything in his life

Wtf? No, you're not his slave
Moan at him that your favourite top hasn't been ironed and see what he says

Ask him when he's going to start bringing you a morning cuppa, and warming your slippers by the fire. Oh, and a G&T at 5.30 would be nice, too.

Or get him to ask his colleagues what they do for their wives.

And suggest he should have looked harder for a stepford wife.

I work 2 days a week snd my dh is a lazy but lovely man. I send out his ironing and we have a cleaner in once a week.

He cooks a fair bit but actually wouldn't know how to switch on the dishwasher or washing machine.

We had lots of "discussions" about this when we first got together and the upshot was that I'm not doing it all so he needs to put his hand in his pocket AND step up. Now he tries but I have to direct him with some things. But I don't do any gardening/maintenance or car stuff.

Maybe a bit gendering but it works most of the time for us.

I work 2 days a week snd my dh is a lazy but lovely man. I send out his ironing and we have a cleaner in once a week.

He cooks a fair bit but actually wouldn't know how to switch on the dishwasher or washing machine.

We had lots of "discussions" about this when we first got together and the upshot was that I'm not doing it all so he needs to put his hand in his pocket AND step up. Now he tries but I have to direct him with some things. But I don't do any gardening/maintenance or car stuff.

Maybe a bit gendering but it works most of the time for us.

Next time he brings it up tell him about your colleagues/ friends husbands who give them regular child free time without complaint, cooks tea every other evening, does the dishwasher daily and does the gardening without being asked.

Of course you don't need to do this stuff for him. There are no dc here, just me and DH. We both work FT.
I do slightly more housework because my job ends at 5 and his includes some evening work (teacher) but he makes his own lunch, irons his own clothes, does his share and does part of my share in school holidays when he has more time.

Next time he brings it up tell him about your colleagues/ friends husbands who give them regular child free time without complaint, cooks tea every other evening, does the dishwasher daily and does the gardening without being asked.

Of course you don't need to do this stuff for him. There are no dc here, just me and DH. We both work FT.
I do slightly more housework because my job ends at 5 and his includes some evening work (teacher) but he makes his own lunch, irons his own clothes, does his share and does part of my share in school holidays when he has more time.