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to be disgusted by this!!!!

22 replies

Nando95 · 10/07/2010 15:20

Last week at roughly 10 oclock in the morning I was travelling down to London on the train to go to a hen weekend.
I got on the train, sat in a reasonably quiet carriage and just sat there reading my book.
A few stops in I noticed 3 transgendered females getting on the train and thought to myself these sound like fun as they came on laughing and joking.

As soon as they got on the train they made a bee-line for a nice looking gentlemen sat directly opposite me- they asked him a few questions which I couldnt understand (they were Italian) and they proceeded to sit on him and feel up and down his legs whilst flashing their breasts at him! I sat there really shocked as did a couple of other people on the train (One of these was a very elderly gentlemen)and just thought this cannot be happening!

The next thing I know the ladies were undoing his trousers and exposing his penis whilst giggling and moaning with no regard for anyone else on the train. They then proceeded to commit a sexual act on him-he was responsive and clearly enjoying it!

At this point I got up rather quickly and moved into the other carriage followed by a young lad of about 16 who also seemed really shocked at what was going on- he kept saying ''I cant believe it- I cant believe it'' as I was leaving the carriage the most opposing of the 3 came up behind me and said in English ''he has a very small penis'' by this point I raced onto the next carriage. I sat down and after 15 minutes the ladies came into the carriage and proceeded to have a massive arguement with an older lady also speaking Italian who kept pointing to the previous carriage as if she witnessed what had occured. The ladies kept shouting and wiggling their breasts in mens faces saying '' gay pride'' and ''we are the Italian mafia.'' During the entire train journey I didnt see a conductor or anyone else connected with the train services.
I have since told people what occured on the train and alot of people have said I should report the incident though I am unsure whether to do this as what can be done now!! I did think that the elderly gentlemen must have felt awful and may not have been in the position to move. Should I make the train company aware of this incident or should I just put it down to a horrible experience that is unlikely to occur again.

OP posts:
DuelingFanjo · 10/07/2010 15:21

really?

LittleMisscantbewrong · 10/07/2010 15:22

no, YANBU!

Nando95 · 10/07/2010 15:23

Yeah it really genuinally happened!! I swear I am not making this up or exgarrating it!

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DuelingFanjo · 10/07/2010 15:24

you've waited a whole week to consider starting a thread about it? I would say it's too late to worry about it now.

mumto2andnomore · 10/07/2010 15:25

Blimey how weird !

thumbwitch · 10/07/2010 15:26

GrinBiscuit

Nando95 · 10/07/2010 15:26

I havent had computer access for a week but as I said before not I dont think a lot can be done now so I will probably leave it and put it down to experience- from now on I will always sit in a busy carriage!!

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DuelingFanjo · 10/07/2010 15:27

what day was it?

Weegle · 10/07/2010 15:28

well it was gay pride last weekend in london so i believe you... and unfortunately tagging on to the fun and harmless majority you get some people who just see it as an excuse to be leud and crude

But you can't do anything retrospectively - you should have complained at the time or at your destination station and they could have called the police

Nando95 · 10/07/2010 15:29

Last Saturday morning- I caught the train from Reading to Ealing Boardway!

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sunny2010 · 10/07/2010 15:31

I would laugh bet thats going to be enough in the wank bank to keep that lad going for weeks lol

merrymonsters · 10/07/2010 15:34

I'd probably still report it. A lot of trains have CCTV these days.

Nando95 · 10/07/2010 15:39

I think the young lad was traumatised to be honest- I am torn between seeing the funny side of it and being mortified! Everyone who knows me have said '' it could have only happened to me!!! x

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shinyshoes · 10/07/2010 15:41

Report it for the young lads sake.

This might have affected him

sharbie · 10/07/2010 16:00

I don't think its funny - would you find it amusing if it was a male and female?
Report it.

BoneyBackJefferson · 10/07/2010 16:18

Sunny2010

That is really offensive.

thefirstmrsDeVere · 10/07/2010 16:29

Report it. They have CCTV.

Horrible.

Loads of sexual type stuff used to happen on the tube in the 80s/early 90s. I sort of got used to it but it was awful and pretty traumatic.

I thought it was much better now.

That poor kid.

Ryoko · 10/07/2010 16:30

If they where gay why where they giving some idiot a blow job sounds like a load of drunk tarts to me, it happens it's london plenty of nutters round here.

They have cameras everywhere they would know about it anyway.

Ryoko · 10/07/2010 16:33

They got plenty of cameras at Ealing they would know about it if they cared.

illgetyoubutler · 10/07/2010 16:37

Dispicable!!
if it were a woman being sexually abused and harassed, would those who find it funny still be smiling?

LittleMisscantbewrong · 10/07/2010 16:43

I thought the op was making this up, hence the

But that is really shocking - I would have complained to police at the time though.

Lauriefairycake · 10/07/2010 16:58

It's hardly sexual abuse and harassment when the man on the train was enjoying it!

You're talking about 4 men getting it on.

The people who were abused and harassed were the poor passengers who had to witness the 4 men getting it on - the young man, the elderly man and the OP.

I would report it just in case the man who was getting the blow job felt he couldn't really say anything and in case the sex act was committed against his will - your story will then back him up.

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