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LesbianMummy1 · 22/05/2010 19:45

Please help me have just received a rather disturbing phone call I am a child minder and use childcare.co.uk to advertise somebody who has viewed my profile today 4 times has just called me saying

I need you to adopt my baby I live in mexico I give birth next month please keep my baby safe I pay you please please please do not hang up on my I am desperate please do not hang up on me please keep my babay safe please please please

What do I do if she phones back. I know it could be a hoax but it could also be genuine?

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nickytwotimes · 22/05/2010 19:46

It is a hoax.
Ignore it.
How upsetting for you though.

biddysmama · 22/05/2010 19:47

sounds like a ploy to get money tbh, sorry

BertieBotts · 22/05/2010 19:48

Even if it was real, there is nothing you can do - you can't just adopt a child from Mexico.

How sad though I hope it is a hoax.

LesbianMummy1 · 22/05/2010 19:49

I kind of hope it was a hoax but I worry about what if she has paid to get my details from childcare.co.uk so seems weird if she wants my money

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elmofan · 22/05/2010 19:50

it sounds like a sick prank phone call tbh but is there any way of retrieving her phone number from your phone company ? Maybe ask for a list of received pH call numbers if thats possible

LesbianMummy1 · 22/05/2010 19:51

was on my mobile so could contact vodafone and see

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Wineonafridaynight · 22/05/2010 19:53

It seems very odd. I'm sorry, I don't have much advice to offer as I really don't see what you can do. Did she say anything else before hanging up? Did you dial 1471 after - just wondering if it came up with a foreign number or an odd number. I know someone from a country in Africa and his number comes up as lots of '8's but that's it!

LesbianMummy1 · 22/05/2010 19:54

no came up private number but am on phone to vodafone to see whether they can do anything

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Wineonafridaynight · 22/05/2010 19:54

SOrry. Took me ages to write that and post. If it didn't come up then I don't think they could provide you with the number,

Wineonafridaynight · 22/05/2010 19:55

Whoops - crossed post again.

Please try not to let it upset you too much as it is one of those situations where there is little you can do. Be interested to hear if they do have the number though.

LesbianMummy1 · 22/05/2010 19:57

because somebody has rung me since they can't trace number they have advised i contact the police just to be on safe side

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elmofan · 22/05/2010 20:19

LM - yes i was just going to advise you to phone your local police station & tell them the whole story . they might be able to look into it for you . good luck & try not let it upset you .

LesbianMummy1 · 22/05/2010 20:25

Have spoke to police they will have to pass it onto the mexican police and see what is happening. I have also contacted vodafone and asked them to see if they can retrieve the records. I have sent a message to the childcare.co.uk website asking them to contact me urgently

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mumbar · 22/05/2010 20:37

OMG thats shocking.

It's probably a hoax but there is a concern people are abusing the website like this.

I would contact the police just to be on the safe side and if it is a hoax then its probably against some law somewhere to do this.

Best of luck

LesbianMummy1 · 22/05/2010 22:14

She has not phoned back so maybe it was a hoax

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MrsHarkness · 22/05/2010 22:41

OMG poor you LM, It probably was a hoax but how upsetting for you, I really hope she doesn't call you back and the police are able to help you.

majafa · 23/05/2010 02:43

Ive heard of this before on another website, I would say its a hoax, you've let the revelent authorities/people know, I should just forget it now.

TheBride · 23/05/2010 03:04

It's a hoax. It's along the lines of the Nigerian scam where they offer you money to help them, but as you get drawn in, suddenly they need money to process the papers or get to somewhere where they can get the money wired or some other BS. If you dont send it their child will die etc etc.

They are preying on you because they know you love children so are more likely to take them seriously.

Please dont let this upset you.

uggmum · 23/05/2010 06:50

I have heard of this b4, it is a scam, they usually call a few times then ask you for money.
Put the phone down if they call again.

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