to ask that DH stops using the kitchen as a bloody workshop

[catinboots]

when he has both a shed AND garage purely for his own use (for work and weird-male-hoarding-disorder)

But do the shed and garage have electricity and running water/a kettle?

yanbu = but then maybe you have a martyr comlplex and like moaning about it?

cos if it happened in my house dh's screwdriver would be up his arse.

chuck it in the garden and tell him to fuck the fuck off.

he gets on little missions when he's not working - like building a hammock stand or putting decking under the pergola. Then I feel guilty because it's all done with the best intentions. If i moan I look like an ungrateful bitchy bitchpants.

tell him to shove his hammock up his arse or he will get fucking hammock and chips if he does it in the kitchen again.

that should solve it.

• he's not psychic - unless you tell him he will do what he wants.

custardo

you know custy is right
dont fight it