to be annoyed with dh ....again

[sneezecake]

he left a rubish bag in the hall, god knows why bin day was yesterday, and the dog has got into it, has unwrapped a nappy and eaten a whole turd, as well as smearing poo all over the floor which i have had to clean up.
and he's late home now i just know hes gone to get some flowers will b e even more annoyed if he has

Just don't let the dog lick you!

Depends what he has done in the past tbh

Why would you be annoyed with flowers?

Sounds like a small mistake - nothing to get divorced over!

Eeew, did you just get home from work yourself? Nice welcome for you!

just pisses me off he always dose thoughtless stuff like this then thinks if he bribgs me flowers it makes it all better and i wont bollock him.
I'd spent 30 mins trying to get ds off to sleep to be left with that to clean up when he'd finally gone off

Why couldn't he clear it up?

Why would you "bollock him"?

he could have cleaned it up if he was home but was out at work and the house smelled of shit so I couldn't sit in that smell for 2 hours
I'd bollock him cos he just so thoughtless, he half arse dose a job then expects me to finish it off, then he turns round and says 'well i help out with the house work I take the rubish out for one...'

Still don't understand why you would "bollock him".

I know it is never this simple, but if you treat him like a child...

Dogs are disgusting. My cat won't even eat certain flavours of cat food, let alone a whole baby's turd.

unfair Muddleduck - he acted like a child.

but treating him like a child won't get rid of the filth but it will (IMO) make him more likely to behave like a child in the future.

BTW I really do understand that in reality things are not this simple, but IME it very bad plan to start treating you (not so D)H like one of the kids. I know this because I tend to do it

grrrrr YANBU how annoying...

He made a mistake, im assuming he will say sorry ie giving you flowers, give him a break.

well the dog got smacked and sent to his bed I know but how disgusting!
DH didn't send any flowers [phew] but did say sorry, forgiven and forgotten

glad to hear that you are now not .

Happy xmas!

Urgh at a dog eating a whole turd. This is why I am a cat person.

Sneezecake, I think you are being a bit hard on your husband. There's no way he could have anticipated the dog doing that! And if he's trying to put it right by buying you flowers, then he's a lovely bloke. It's the dog that should be in the dog-house, not him