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To think that my Df has no place to include

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norksinmywaistband · 10/12/2009 18:00

All the details of my very recent marriage breakup( only one month) in the Christmas round robin, without at least consulting me on the content first

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SnailWhaleTail · 10/12/2009 18:16

YANBU

Not cool of your df and a slightly bizarre thing to include in a jolly xmas round robin.

Maybe he thought he was doing you a favour so you wouldn't have to explain many times to lots of people.....?

Hope you're ok as poss, btw.

LynetteScavo · 10/12/2009 18:19

YANBU!

You could have incluided it in your own round robin if you'd wanted peopel to know.

MmeLindt · 10/12/2009 18:21

Is DF darling friend? Father?

YANBU in any case, totally inappropriate thing to do.

norksinmywaistband · 10/12/2009 18:22

I think it is the fact that he has mentioned so many details ie the fact he had an affair , counselling etc- If he had to say something why not, unfortunately norks and mr norks are separating.I am absolutely fuming, but as much as I am I will not say anything to him, it wouldn't change anything.
Have already had 2 people ask me if I am ok as a result though. And I could really do without that

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norksinmywaistband · 10/12/2009 18:23

Father.

I would never do a round robin I hate them. I talk to people who I want to know my business

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MmeLindt · 10/12/2009 18:26

Wow, that is very intrusive. I would be fuming. Have you spoken to him yet?

norksinmywaistband · 10/12/2009 18:30

I am too upset and angry to speak to him atm. I am still trying to cope and come to terms with events myself without relative strangers looking me up as they have heard via the RR

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MmeLindt · 10/12/2009 19:31

No wonder, that was a truly awful thing to do.

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