30's so much better than 20's
20's -downside- series of depressing relationships some long term some short, badly paid jobs, living in freezing cold rented houses oop north, no money , paying off student debts, no dress sense, having to go out on a saturday night cos felt it was too sad to stay in - result got fat on drink. Generally immature and under neath lack of confidence. Smoked too much
upside - did travel a lot, had some escapades
30's - jobs became career, debts paid off , lived in own house with central heating , met decent bloke ( STILL IN HIS 20'S LOL) after kissing all those frogs, aquired age appropriate dress sense, got married , live in own house with central heating , lost weight after deciding to get off arse and do something about it which came with confidence that comes with getting older and wiser and learning from mistakes, gave up smoking and drinking far too much, had much wanted baby recently and very content.
downside : getting wrinkles and worrying about turning 40 as that seems reeeally old
would love to get a holiday - impossible at mo!!