To really not care not hes dead....

[twinkletoescare]

AIBU to really not be sad that my Ex H's cousin has been stabbed to death?

The guy was a well known drug dealer pushing heroin and the likes onto young people and bullied people into buying... despite numerous stays in prison and rehab failed to kick his habit and continued dealing...

When i first heard the news i was obviously sad for his long suffering mum but if im honest i think whoever dealt the fatal blow has done a lot of people a huge favour..

AIBU ???

I can understand your relief but it isn't just about him, it's about the act of his murder and that is NEVER a good thing for whoever did it and the next person they might kill

You're entitled to your feelings on the matter, obviously. Provided you don't tell his family you feel that way.

Not being all that sad is not the same as celebrating it, after all.

Oh i have no contact with his family, havent had for many years.
Celebrating ANY death would be wrong,whoever it was. i merely just have no sad feelings other than for his mum and brothers..