Reminds me of a story I once heard:
A man travelling along a road to a new town stopped an old man on the road and asked him "what are the people like here?".
The old man asked "What were they like where you came from?"
"Very friendly and nice"said the traveller.
"I think you'll find them like that here too" said the old man.
Later that same day, another man was travelling along the road when he stopped the same old man on the road and asked him "what are the people like here?".
The old man asked "What were they like where you came from?"
"Grumpy, unfriendly and unhelpful!"said the traveller.
"I think you'll find them like that here too" said the old man.