To have told DH to feck off?

[Lurchin]

I am so pissed off and upset- I told him ifhe doesn't like it he can lump it. I am buying a puppy with my own money, and he wants the kids to name it, ffs! I already know what I want to call itbut he had a huge go at me and went all abusive.

ummm, riiiight

What do you want to call it?

It's sunny outside. Go out and play.

that seems odd, what name have you chosen?

I could see his point of view, how abusive?

With your own money you say? And how much have you saved from your paper round?

Did you really say feck? Does your mummy not allow you to swear?

does a name really matter? Just tell your partner you've picked the name, but dont make it into an argument.

YABU - why can't you let your kids name it?

you are sounding like a spoiled brat.

you probably are a spoiled brat!

YABU. The puppy is going to be in the family the children should name it.

Are you 13?

I think the op is actually the one who wants her kids to name it and it is her dh who has told her to feck off.

All I can say is please dont let him get a puppy.

revision not going well?

It says that HE wants the kids to name it and the OP already knows what she? wants to call it.

Oh please - is the best you could do?

I know but I think the op is trying to get non biased views in an albeit odd way. Surely noone would be that stupid otherwise.