My brother is getting married in April, it's his second marriage.
I saw my Dad last week and he asked if I'd got my invitation, I said no and assumed it would come the next day. It didn't arrive.
I was just talking to my Dad who told me that I'm not invited because my brother knows I have no childcare for DD and it's a child free wedding (children including my brother's 10 year old son).
Now, I have no issue with the child free, I wouldn't have gone to the wedding anyway, It's in Leicestershire and my budget doesn't stretch to that which again my brother does know but is it unreasonable of me to expect a card perhaps explaining my lack of invite?
Admittedly we aren't close so perhaps I shouldn't feel hurt, but I do.