...with the amount of unscientific, unproven bunkum that is used in some threads to bash people over the head and make them feel paranoid / guilty / paranoid & guilty / failures / bad parents / paranoid, guilty bad parents, all in the name of 'advice'....
I know most people mean well. And most stuff is really helpful / supportive / useful.
Grrr.
Got that off my chest now. Off for some shut-eye.
Apologies for overuse of the / button