Had a right go at a bloke at work and feeling more than a bit guilty, but aibu?

[deanychip]

Probably yes to have a go, but i am fed up with it all.

Have you ever had a go at some one at work just because you have had a belly full of thier crap?

Yes.

Then he resigned.

ooooh
ok

resigned because of you???

(ohgodohgod dont want him to resign, just to stop bieng an arse)

I slammed the table once like Stalin.
They all looked shocked.
Suffice it to say I don't work there any more.

we can't say if you were unreasonable until we have details!!!

Yes - I really lost the plot at one particularly useless woman when i was a bar manager. She burst into tears, left, and we never saw her again. No great loss as a staff member, but I sometimes worry about her as a person - she was a very timid type (really not suited to bar work) and I wonder if me having a go at her really upset her.

Oh well. Was a long time ago now.

What was your thing about? I can't tell you if you're BU if I don't know what his "crap" was!

Yup, did a big standing up at my desk slapping my hands on it trying to tower over this nutter across from me who'd been acting like a 5 year old for days. trouble is I'm 5 ft 3 & she's soooo not.

I walked out of a staff meeting of 5 people after my boss really peed me off. I told her I was about to get really angry so I was leaving the room. Then I did, sobbed at my desk for about an hour and had to spend the rest of the day avoiding her .

I blamed it on hormones but tbh it wasn't - I'd just had it with her crap.

Ok! nice to know i am not the only one!

Im just feeling that way out today and he got the brunt....

was a boss.

but its ok, wont get sacked or anything.

Think he is now aware that he should NOT fuck with the chip when she is annoyed.