that when a bloke is making a huge effort to chat you up, to tell you how much he loves his ex GF is really not a good idea

[macdoodle]

to be fair he did say that he loves her but isnt in love with her
It was the drunken rambling about how he would do anything for her that had me a little
This is a man that has been flirting with me for weeks (at work) and had spent all night at a works do outrageously trying it on
Ah well

LOL he probably thinks it makes him seem caring rather than a loser

numpty!

quality..what a prince among men

L-O-S-E-R

avoid like the plague.

if he asks why, tell him the truth.

he'll probably accuse you of being a cow and not understanding.

all the more reason not to touch him with a ten-foot barge pole.

I would be too

Sounds like he still holds a torch for her

I know a guy who does this regulary, I keep telling him he needs to stop it, as he scares women off all the time. (you're not in Edinburgh by any chance)

yeah, when i was single, this was one of the things that would COMPLETELY put me off.

sure, we all have baggage, but geez, have the decency to hide it in polite company.

YANBU

Biggest 'chat up' turn off for me is when a bloke approaches you and your friend/s and says 'ladies...' etc, and it becomes clear that he's trying to shag one of you but he's not fussy which one.

Are men stupid as well as sleazy? Rule one is make the object of your desires feel that she has something that the other girls don't. Not that she is the only one out a bunch of equals with low enough standards to get off with you.

sounds like he's not really over her.

Drink loosens the tongue. He probably still has feelings / regrets.

am nearly in tears -sodding british gas..so much for call out service - 24 hours .. bollocks and then get told off for being cross as I'm not delighted after ten odd years of paying for their useless service the oen time I do want/need them -they are no better than a plumber.

whoops wrong thread

Have you seen the "I hate British Gas and they smell of poo" thread in Classics? I think you need to.

And the man who catted up the OP and then told her he loves his gf sounds like a fuckwit arse loser. IMHO>

What a saddo. YANBU.

Lol at Morriszapp.

What a prat!

Did you tell him that having ditched one prat you weren't looking to take another one on

BT:

Or, as Kathleen Turner would have put it: 'I have one asshole in my pants already. I don't need another one'.

Good one MZ!