He seems to think I am.
We split just over a year ago, we made an agreement between ourselves that he would pay £200 per month maintenance. All was good, 1st of every month he used to pay me it no bother. However last payment I had was May. 4 months down the line I'd gone through all the money in my account and was nearing my overdraft limit (wages & tax credits are slightly less than my outgoings), so I asked him for some money. He kicked off, threatened me, ended in me dialling 999 before he would leave the house. He claims he has no maoney (he earns in a week what I earn in a month), although tbh, knowing his spending history it doesn't surprise me that he's managed to run up £40K worth of debt in the last year. I asked a couple more times, but each time was met with 'I've got no money'.
I haven't wanted to involve the csa, but now everything is bouncing out of my account, so I've been left with no choice. Today he received the letter from the csa. Today he got the sack. Very bloody convenient from my pov.
Having spoken to him on the phone he won't listen to anything I have to say. I've tried to help him with his debt, told him to see a debt management company, but he won't. But all in all he says it's my fault he's been sacked!
So I told him to go fuck himself, but apparently I'm the one being out of order here.