I was in a waiting room today when an elderly woman came in.
She saw a dad and toddler and said "how old is he? A year? I shouldn't say this because I'm the MIL but my grandson is just over a year and he still isn't walking, just shuffles along on his bottom. It's not right though..my son tells me to mind my own business..."
Then she sat down and talked to another mum and started showing her some pictures.
She'd apparently arranged a session with a studio photographer and these pictures were the result. They were of the grandson, her son and....err, that's it. No DIL in them at all.
It then turned out the DIL and son had moved away. I wonder why?
DIL, if you're on MN, you have my sincere sympathy.