so, had shoulder op two half weeks ago, painful, not allowed to drive, bike, swim etc, great as h booked centreparcs for last week. Ended up sitting around pool, playing left handed bowling, ditto badminton etc. Today he told me i had to try driving coz his daughter (three of his children live with us) needs to get to six form later in day. I woke up this morning with raging sore throat, have cold brewing, today did shopping, cleaning tidying and then had a lie down. Inevitably I fell asleep, not feeling great, mind and body, h comes into bedroom and decides to shout for his son to come and see him, this stirs me, then they have a full discussion in the bedroom where it is obvious I had been asleep. I get up and go out to make coffee, what else can I do, they are having a full blown conversation, and guess what? H has got the nark with me coz I was cross with him for waking me up! Not spoken to me since about 4.30 and I don't give a c**p!