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Jules766 · 06/11/2026 19:40

I have recently made the decision to stop using fabric conditioner and those scent pearls on our laundry.

I believe fabric conditioner over time causes build up and damages the fabrics and also causes build up and gunk in the machine draw and pipes ( a washer guy from Hotpoint said this )

The scent pearls just add an overpowering floral fragrance and fragrance doesn't mean it's clean as clean doesn't smell of anything.

My routine is just Ariel pods or liquid and that's it and our clothes are clean but I just question AIBU to only use detergent and nothing else?

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Katemax82 · 06/11/2026 22:24

Brightbluesomething · 06/11/2026 22:13

I have always used fabric softener, my ex doesnt. Kids bring their laundry to me as he ruins their branded clothes and they feel like cardboard with next level pilling. You do you, but be prepared for the consequences.

He probably washes at 90 degrees with biological powder

Flamingojune · 06/11/2026 22:27

Ive never used it

Fuckmyliferightnow · 06/11/2026 22:31

Soda crystals help the detergent work better and softens the water. It’s also good for the pipes etc.
Also vinegar in the softener drawer is a good alternative, if you’re worried about the smell a couple of drops of lavender essential oil helps.

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