Hey all, I know I have told my story before but I just want to expand. My child is now 2 years old and today I have had to do a huge thing and admit defeat by taking time off sick and getting a sick note. For context partner works 40-50 hours a week, I take on any night times my toddler is awake, cleaning, going to work part time and most of the childcare. LO is only in 2 days a week for nursery. Lately my partner has been exploding at me over things be it towels on the radiator, clothes not being put away (normally I am good at this) and has gone as far as to threaten to break up with me because I keep asking him to help me. My LO was sick the other night, he wouldnt sleep, I was on hold to 111 for ages due to high volume calls and this was due to him wheezing. I finally got an appointment at 2:15pm the following day and neither my son nor I had slept. I begged my partner to take a day off sick at work, he flat out refused telling me had no money for the month and I offered to pay him out of my savings but still nothing. That day I was so exhausted and fustrated I mentioned about a day we were off together and how he left me to suffer then too. When hes off I usually take 2 hours to myself, this includes a good shower as I'm lucky if I get 5 minutes and then makeup so we can go out. After those 2 hours I came downstairs hoping my son was ready to go out. What I came down too was my partner with both headphones in, playing a computer game, food all over the floor and my son totally ignored, left in the high chair infront of the tv. When confronted he told me he did this to prove a point on purpose and that I dont need 2 hours to get ready. Nightly, I am lucky if I get more than 3 hours sleep, my blood preassure is always elevated to 130-140 due to stress and I keep having chest pains. I keep having to take time off sick and feel like I am failing my work but today has got so bad I require a sick note. My mum and my grandma have my son once a week when I am at work although my mum has health problems and my grandma is retired so I try not to put strain on them. I feel like a failing mum, work colleague, daughter and girlfriend and I dont know what to do anymore?