Money is tight for everyone in my family, the cost of living, increased energy etc etc. Most people are feeling it from some angle.
I have 4 siblings all with children of various ages (0-16 years). We stopped buying for adults years ago but have got for the kids. We have decided that rather than stressing out getting presents for all the kids, we would just focus on our family units. I'm quite relieved about this and they are too. Not buying for 8 other children will mean we can buy a few extra ones for our own kids and control the budget easier. I'm sure there will be a few token Christmas chocolates or cakes made for each other but we are not doing a gift exchange.
My partner mentioned the same for his side and they are really not happy. We've said we'd still buy that side if they are insisting on a gift exchange but unfortunately it won't be much this year. They are talking to us like we're suggesting we cancel Christmas! Maybe it's because we've never put a huge emphasis on gifts even at Christmas and we try and do more as a family in activities etc. The idea has completely offended his side. We were by no means saying to them that they must do the same as my siblings, it was just a suggestion given the current financial climate.
AIBU? Are we ruining Christmas by not having extended family exchanging presents?