I have recently started at a new company. Since joining there has been a real tightening up on budgets. I have to travel alone frequently with hotel stays at least weekly.
We had a staff meeting this week and the Department Head talked about being careful with travel expenses. She congratulated someone who had recently chosen a hotel further away to save money and made the comment that the area he had stayed in was not a particularly pleasant area. The person being congratulated is male and is a manager of others.
I feel uncomfortable that they gave the message that costs are more important than anything and that choosing hotels in dodgy areas is to be applauded.
I worry that people in his team (and particularly women) may now feel pressured to make choices and stay in areas where they feel uncomfortable.
YABU: grow up, it was a throw away comment.
YANBU: they should be aware of the message this might send.