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Correcting Teaching Assistant's grammar and spelling

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UpSheGoesJosephine · Yesterday 20:28

If you were a TA in a primary school, would you be comfortable correcting a fellow TA if they spelt something incorrectly or used bad grammar. Such as, 'I done this' or pacific instead of specific.

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Fiddlesticks1 · Yesterday 21:02

Had a Head Teacher who didn’t know there was affect and effect. I had to explain the difference.

Honeyandwine · Yesterday 21:03

ElefantAndCastle · Yesterday 20:45

None were in my childrens' school.

If I had a master I wouldn't work for a TA's pay.

Edited

Well you shouldn’t assume that one school reflects all TAs. Unless you checked every TA’s qualifications at your children’s school you can’t know that. Many highly qualified people choose TA roles because the hours work around their own childcare. You can criticise the poor pay without making sweeping statements about their education!

johnd2 · Yesterday 21:04

As a parent on the rare occasion, I cross out and correct anything that comes home incorrectly, but don't make any other deal of it, but being honest my Y2 son would correct them first, he's far more interested in correcting mistakes than any sense of hierarchy or subtlety!
If a TA hasn't learnt yet it's probably not going to change, some people don't have a mind for spelling.
Most of the value of a TA is sitting with the children and helping them read and support them with their learning, probably the negative effect of spelling mistakes is not going to be a major issue. Same goes for parents, even parents with English as a second language can have a massive impact on their children's learning.

WrigglyDonCat · Yesterday 21:07

fashionqueen0123 · Yesterday 20:28

I’d want to but not sure how.

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LimeFish · Yesterday 21:13

I remember having to spend a few weeks training DD when she was about 6 to stop saying "I done". There were written exercises, role play and rewards involved. I agree with PP that as an adult that's now just a feature/dialect but I would raise it if it was in written form.

Bushmillsbabe · Yesterday 21:14

TheSunIsAlwaysThere · Yesterday 20:30

Does anyone really say or write pacific for specific? Really?

I once told a teacher she had made a mistake on the spelling list for the test.

My daughter does, because she struggles to make certain speech sounds

Dovesono · Yesterday 21:15

ElefantAndCastle · Yesterday 20:45

None were in my childrens' school.

If I had a master I wouldn't work for a TA's pay.

Edited

The school your childrens go to?

Judashascomeintosomemoney · Yesterday 21:17

I’d feel perfectly comfortable, yes, especially if they were in danger of teaching children incorrectly.

I was perfectly comfortable telling the teacher (not TA) that made my (very) dyslexic DD spell the, correctly spelt, word ‘Repeatedly’, three times as ‘Repeatidly’. Why wouldn’t you?

WingnutSOS · Yesterday 21:17

MeetMeOnTheCorner · Yesterday 20:59

I’d tell the head. It’s not acceptable to speak incorrectly if you are educating dc. Or if it’s written English too. Just not good enough from anyone in an educational position.

This. I expect teachers to get SPAG right.

FunPartyIdeas · Yesterday 21:20

@ElefantAndCastle After I'd had my third child I worked for about 5 years as a TA before becoming a tutor.
I have two degrees and 20 plus years of experience as a primary teacher.
So I'd like to think I'm not "badly educated"?
What do you do for a living?

springintospring26 · Yesterday 21:22

A HT I worked with used to say 'Nothink' instead of Nothing

lottiegarbanzo · Yesterday 21:25

Why would you not? Why entertain hypersensitivity to the feelings of people failing in their jobs - without concern for the consequences, for the people whose education is the purpose of those jobs?

You can deal with the feelings by speaking to her kindly, privately. You can address the substantive issue by speaking to her kindly, privately.

What on earth would prevent you from doing that? Other than a reasonable preference for going via the teacher or manager.

Either way this needs to he dealt with.

Airconfan · Yesterday 21:25

JoshLymanSwagger · Yesterday 20:43

I would. "Did you mean ...?" every time.

These are little kids who learn from every interaction.

Why wouldn't you correct someone who is so obviously incorrect.

Please be careful correcting someone’s speech. I had to have hours and hours of speech therpy as a child and it took a long time for me to build my confidence.

There are certain words now I still struggle with and honestly if you pulled me up on it I would probably go home and cry. Then be extremely anxious to speak and I would avoid saying that word as much as possible.

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 21:31

ElefantAndCastle · Yesterday 20:45

None were in my childrens' school.

If I had a master I wouldn't work for a TA's pay.

Edited

Master's. Not master.

Moll2020 · Yesterday 21:35

ElefantAndCastle · Yesterday 20:39

I wouldn't. TAs are badly educated and badly paid. A lot of teachers can't spell or write anyway.

Badly educated? That’s rude. I used to be a TA, I’m degree educated. I was poorly paid but not uneducated.

dreamingofgoodhair · Yesterday 21:37

Growlybear83 · Yesterday 20:47

Many teachers have atrocious standards of spelling and grammar. When my daughter was in Year 2, her teacher marked her English work, and crossed out part if a sentence where she had written ‘I would have’. She changed it to ‘I would of’.

I’d have marched into that classroom.

Bollihobs · Yesterday 21:37

TheSunIsAlwaysThere · Yesterday 20:30

Does anyone really say or write pacific for specific? Really?

I once told a teacher she had made a mistake on the spelling list for the test.

It's perception isn't it - they perceive the word to be spelt as they say it. They may even think "specific" is a different word entirely!

Angela Rayner famously twice said "fragrantly" instead of "flagrantly" during an interview presumably because her perception was that was the correct word.

And yes, I would correct errors like that - it's not just a spelling mistake it's a different word!

Bollihobs · Yesterday 21:39

Bushmillsbabe · Yesterday 21:14

My daughter does, because she struggles to make certain speech sounds

But she wouldn't spell it incorrectly I'm sure - she would know the word she was using and would write it correctly even if pronunciation is a problem.

MassiveBackstory · Yesterday 21:40

twoshedsjackson · Yesterday 20:52

You could try phrasing it as preventing her being criticized by a picky visitor.
At my last school, I was appointed resident pedant, briefed to patrol before Open Days etc., checking labels and captions before beady-eyed visitors spotted any solecisms.
I was responsible for Music, and also cast an eye over the reports submitted by the peripatetic instrumental teachers. The percussion teacher was very upfront about being dyslexic, (a first-rate percussionist nonetheless) and all reports were rigorously double-checked by the Head before going home.
And yet I still asked a good friend to check my reports over before submission; when you've typed something, you know what you meant, and your eye can skim over typos when you read through. Perhaps you could ask your colleague to check this work in this spirit, offering to check theirs in a spirit of mutual support?
@TheSunIsAlwaysThere ; I once, as a mere pupil, argued the odds with a teacher who marked one of my spellings as wrong; the word in question was "fuchsia" and I brought the gardening dictionary into school to support my case. She took it well, but I wince when I remember it now......

Goodness gracious, the percussion teacher was dyslexic but a first rate percussionist nonetheless? Do go on…

Are you sure you were appointed resident pedant? Or were you just pegged as resident pedant and all round snobsworth jobsworth?

Bollihobs · Yesterday 21:41

Growlybear83 · Yesterday 20:47

Many teachers have atrocious standards of spelling and grammar. When my daughter was in Year 2, her teacher marked her English work, and crossed out part if a sentence where she had written ‘I would have’. She changed it to ‘I would of’.

Good grief that's appalling!

Marycontrarygarden · Yesterday 21:41

ElefantAndCastle · Yesterday 20:39

I wouldn't. TAs are badly educated and badly paid. A lot of teachers can't spell or write anyway.

Well done, You've researched how many teachers for this thorough analysis?

Marycontrarygarden · Yesterday 21:43

ElefantAndCastle · Yesterday 20:45

None were in my childrens' school.

If I had a master I wouldn't work for a TA's pay.

Edited

Presumably you've pulled up all of their records?

Looloolullabelle · Yesterday 21:46

Growlybear83 · Yesterday 20:47

Many teachers have atrocious standards of spelling and grammar. When my daughter was in Year 2, her teacher marked her English work, and crossed out part if a sentence where she had written ‘I would have’. She changed it to ‘I would of’.

Oh bloody hell, it makes me wince when I see people on here using “would of”, I think I’d have had forty fits seeing this on my childs schoolwork.

Hope you complained 😂

Marycontrarygarden · Yesterday 21:46

HollyhocksandPeons · Yesterday 21:31

Master's. Not master.

Now now, that poster clearly knows better....they certainly think they do.

Fimofriend · Yesterday 21:46

PrayForPlagues · Yesterday 20:37

One of our SLT says ‘pacifically” instead of “specifically” 🙈 and she was head of English before she was SLT 🙈

I worked together with a very xenophobic co-worker and she also said Pacific instead of specific. She also made other glaring errors when speaking English.

Can't help thinking that one reason why she was xenophobic was that she resented that all her foreign co-workers had a better grasp of English grammar than her.

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