Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

AIBU to be going crazy trying to find what is biting us?

32 replies

slugjelly · 09/09/2026 21:06

Please help me work out what is biting us. I had a few but now it’s relentlessly going for my DD. Victorian house (with cracks for spiders etc but renovation and no one living here for years before that), first winter we’ve lived in it. One cat who is up to date on flea treatments. No recent weird sleepovers or holidays. It only started this past week or so. Could it be spiders? I have been round the house doing everything I can but still it comes. (Tonight new spider traps and sealant everywhere though)

OP posts:
Walkacrossthesand · 09/09/2026 21:08

Any pics of the bites, more info about where they appear on the body, etc?

WellThatsNotAGrowthMindset · 09/09/2026 21:08

Midges/Mozzies last hurrah
Rat mites, house mouse mites, bird mites
Scabies

Hoping it's the first one for you and they all die off soon/close your windows

TronaldDump · 09/09/2026 21:08

You have my sympathy - this happens to me sometimes! Do you have a blocked up chimney? Once it was bird mites from old nests which had fallen down the chimney. Once we re-sealed the problem stopped!

BabyCat2020z · 09/09/2026 21:12

Do you have indoors plants? I kept getting bitten the other year around this time and it was horrible little black fly things on indoor pot plants.

boxtop · 09/09/2026 21:14

It’s not winter! It’s late summer, really. There are still mozzies about

slugjelly · 09/09/2026 21:15

These are more painful than mozzie bites which we do get lots of in peak summer. They’re much itchier, and have a sort of water filled bubble — but then go after a few days. It’s not chicken pox.

OP posts:
slugjelly · 09/09/2026 21:20

I wish I hadn’t heard about rat mites or bird mites. Ugh!! I’ve just been spraying insect killer into my chimneys like a mad woman.

OP posts:
slugjelly · 09/09/2026 21:38

Also, can anyone recognise the bites?

OP posts:
TGT · 09/09/2026 21:38

Where are the bites? Fleas tend to be round your ankles.

slugjelly · 09/09/2026 21:43

They were on my inside knee and now on my daughters torso

OP posts:
slugjelly · 09/09/2026 21:43

I uploaded a pic but I don’t think it worked.

OP posts:
Letsgocamping67 · 09/09/2026 21:47

Is your cat on a vet treatment ? And if it’s the back of the neck job they have largely stopped working apparently. We have had to go on a tablet instead think it’s credelio. Paying for a plan which wasn’t working.

Takersgonnatake · 09/09/2026 21:48

Fleas can lie dormant in carpets for years and wake up to feast when cats/dogs/people move in. I’d go to the vets and buy a big can of indorex or similar. Blitz the house and sleep elsewhere for the night if you can!

Calendulaaria · 09/09/2026 21:53

Bed bugs?

Jadedmoorhen · 09/09/2026 21:55

Harvest mites
(chiggers) ?

BizzyLizzyandLittleMo · 09/09/2026 21:56

Are the bites in clusters or ones on their own. Try posting a picture again

RedSoloCup · 09/09/2026 22:04

Need a picture!

NippyNinjaCrab · 09/09/2026 22:05

Bat bugs, my next door neighbours had them. They had bats in the eaves and now the bats are gone the bat bugs have no food. The feed on human blood but don't last long on human blood. They look similar to a bed bug apparently.

Cheesychips38 · 09/09/2026 22:11

Me and my daughter are the same, turns out half my street are getting bitten too by mosquitoes!! We have fields and water right behind us and it's constant!! They are so so itchy 😭

NigellaAwesome · 09/09/2026 22:16

If you can move out for a couple of days an ozone machine will get rid of whatever it is. Just make sure you stay out of the house as it is hugely toxic to all living organisms before it dissipates.

RemindMeIn15Minutes · 09/09/2026 22:16

BabyCat2020z · 09/09/2026 21:12

Do you have indoors plants? I kept getting bitten the other year around this time and it was horrible little black fly things on indoor pot plants.

I think this is happening to me! I didn’t realise they were vampire flies!

Keroppi · 09/09/2026 22:18

Diatomaceous earth - sprinkle it in cracks, round skirting boards etc
Shreds all bug exoskeleton
Have you had the heating on as flea eggs can lay dormant & wake up when warm enough. This happened to me in a rental after I moved in

slugjelly · 09/09/2026 22:19

These

AIBU to be going crazy trying to find what is biting us?
OP posts:
Keroppi · 09/09/2026 22:19

Indorex everywhere too and go out for a few hours after
Diatomaceous earth is harmless to us just don't breathe loads in like don't shake it and make a cloud form

RemindMeIn15Minutes · 09/09/2026 22:30

Do they hurt or just itch?