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Barbecues on terraces. Yes or No

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PerhapsPerhapsMaybe · 06/09/2026 14:30

What are your thoughts on barbecues on terraces?

There are in total 25 apartments in the block. Each apartment has its own small outdoor terrace.

One of the residents often has a barbecue on theirs. Other residents complain about the smell and potential fire hazard.

The barbecuing resident cannot find anything in the lease that prohibits this.

The complaining neighbours cite common sense and consideration.

who is right?

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ShitFacedShakespeare · 06/09/2026 14:31

It's unusual that there's nothing prohibiting them.

Sounds like an(other) accident waiting to happen.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 06/09/2026 14:32

Not sure how to vote though because you haven't given an opinion?

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 06/09/2026 14:33

I can’t see how it’s any worse or dangerous than smoking on the terrace which I imagine plenty of people do.

Fridgemanageress · 06/09/2026 14:33

If it’s not in the lease, then the complainants needs to stop the hand wringing, pearl clutching and using bullying statements like common sense and consideration!

EmeraldRoulette · 06/09/2026 14:33

I’m in a block of flats where some people have terraces

Some people did ask how others would feel if they did this

it was universally agreed that it was unfair and antisocial. There is nothing to forbid it in the lease so I’m sure some wanker will do it eventually but so far nobody has. But then they might end up with a few dogs hanging around waiting for sausages…. that might not bother them of course.

does it depend how many items you cook? I do think I’ve seen some sort of closed cooking apparatus on someone’s terrace but if it’s just him cooking a couple of burgers, that’s not the same as if my mum’s neighbours have a barbecue which can be smelt a mile around. And seems to give off a lot of smoke.

ExOptimist · 06/09/2026 14:41

Have the other residents checked the lease? When my son owned a leasehold flat in a block there was a specific ban on barbecues and firepits.

If not then the others have to rely on the goodwill of the barbecuer. Given so many people are inconsiderate these days I doubt it will stop.
It's the same as living next door to someone who barbecues right next to the fence. Nothing you can do about it if they refuse to stop.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 06/09/2026 14:48

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 06/09/2026 14:33

I can’t see how it’s any worse or dangerous than smoking on the terrace which I imagine plenty of people do.

You think BBQ fuel and naked flames on a balcony, is no more dangerous than someone having a fag?

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 06/09/2026 14:52

ShitFacedShakespeare · 06/09/2026 14:48

You think BBQ fuel and naked flames on a balcony, is no more dangerous than someone having a fag?

No, I don’t.

Fire is fire. If you’re careful with you’re generally fine, if you’re not careful with it you’re fucked.

Pavementdweller · 06/09/2026 14:52

How big are the terraces?

ShitFacedShakespeare · 06/09/2026 14:55

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 06/09/2026 14:52

No, I don’t.

Fire is fire. If you’re careful with you’re generally fine, if you’re not careful with it you’re fucked.

Well quite.

So apartment blocks generally prohibit these things because they know that some people aren't careful.

But it's a lot easier to burn a block down with a BBQ than a fag, due to the fuel.

dreamingofgoodhair · 06/09/2026 15:01

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 06/09/2026 14:33

I can’t see how it’s any worse or dangerous than smoking on the terrace which I imagine plenty of people do.

Really ? Naked flames , longer period , fat spitting.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 06/09/2026 15:11

dreamingofgoodhair · 06/09/2026 15:01

Really ? Naked flames , longer period , fat spitting.

Yes and the wind blowing too.

EmeraldRoulette · 06/09/2026 15:29

@PerhapsPerhapsMaybe are you the barbecuing resident?

WillieBanjo · 06/09/2026 15:39

Is it a gas BBQ?

CostcoFanofThree · 06/09/2026 15:55

If it’s not in the lease agreement or prohibited by the fire department it should be fine.

Goldengirl123 · 06/09/2026 16:12

Terraces on the ground floor or balconies?

PerhapsPerhapsMaybe · 06/09/2026 17:03

Pavementdweller · 06/09/2026 14:52

How big are the terraces?

Fairly small. Around 3m x 1m

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PerhapsPerhapsMaybe · 06/09/2026 17:04

Goldengirl123 · 06/09/2026 16:12

Terraces on the ground floor or balconies?

on the top floor

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PerhapsPerhapsMaybe · 06/09/2026 17:05

EmeraldRoulette · 06/09/2026 15:29

@PerhapsPerhapsMaybe are you the barbecuing resident?

No but I can’t decide who is BU.

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Pavementdweller · 06/09/2026 17:07

PerhapsPerhapsMaybe · 06/09/2026 17:03

Fairly small. Around 3m x 1m

I have a balcony that size. I’m top floor and only have neighbours below me - it crossed my mind a couple of times this summer whether I could get away with having a barbecue, but there would probably be a post on Mumsnet about it 😆

Itsthewoluff · 06/09/2026 17:11

Charcoal bbq no, gas bbq maybe, ninja electric bbq or equivalent, definitely ok.

Splinter in bum from fence.

Ohthatsabitshit · 06/09/2026 17:11

So basically a balcony with no one above? I can’t see what the issue is? Smoke goes up not down.

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 06/09/2026 17:13

By terrace do you mean balcony? And they have a small bbq on it? I am struggling to see why that’s an issue?

AirborneElephant · 06/09/2026 17:18

Ohthatsabitshit · 06/09/2026 17:11

So basically a balcony with no one above? I can’t see what the issue is? Smoke goes up not down.

This. I can see an issue with the ground floor very close to everyone’s windows, but not on the top floor. Haven’t voted but I’d say the BBQ people ANBU

PerhapsPerhapsMaybe · 06/09/2026 17:36

Ohthatsabitshit · 06/09/2026 17:11

So basically a balcony with no one above? I can’t see what the issue is? Smoke goes up not down.

No that’s not so. The smoke travels all over.

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