Trigger warning - SA.
a few years ago the father of my children ( who I was married to ) sexually assaulted me. This lead to further of events that has taken years to process and rebuild our lives after everything that happened.
I am not sure how the discussion started but mutual friends of both ours were apparently discussing the situation. To avoid drip feeding husband is
no longer with us.
with in their conversation apparently it was discussed about my accusation and how it was a false accusation because I didn’t say “
no “
our Young child was in the kitchen with both of us when I went outside to get something from our “ out house “
for reference he was a lot bigger and a lot stronger than me.
he followed me out there leaving young DC free in the kitchen.
he came in and stood in front of the door blocking my way out. He said he just wanted to talk about recent issues. I requested he moved and let me out and he hit me.
I then stopped asking and let him talk. I was worried about our young DC.
he said he would let me out if I just allowed him to have sex with me again. I agreed and then went to leave ( just to get out ) but then he still wouldn’t let me get out the door and said I needed to show him I meant it. I “ agreed “ because I was scared and worried about getting to my child. Luckily DC was fine.
his story to everyone was basically admitting it but that it wasn’t R* rather than he was in a dark place, drunk and yes done wrong but it was consensual.
he admitted to “ hitting me “ but not to sexual assault.