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AIBU to think tickets and popular places are much harder to access now

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dapplefox · 03/09/2026 14:16

Listening on the radio this morning about the Bayeux Tapestry being shown in London presently but also that it's completely sold out until January with no new tickets available yet. A friend of mind was unable to get tickets to the Frieda Kahlo show at the Tate recently and I've lost count of the number of times I have not been able to get tickets for a concert in recent years.

I remember years ago it used to be fairly easy to get ticket for a ballet, a theatre show (we went to see one in 2006 with a really star studded cast in London and got the tickets easily and it was much cheaper). I could easily get a ticket to see quite a large band like Primal Scream at a time when they were really popular at a really small venue but now similar acts often sell out super quick at much larger venues i.e. one that holds 15k people over 2k.

Is there just that much more people in the UK now? Do people just go to things as a matter of course if they can get a ticket whereas in the past it was more likely to be dedicated fans? It's so expensive I find this crazy although I know it happens as I met some friends at a Cure concert a couple of years ago and I was surprised as I hadn't known they like the Cure, when I said this they said they didn't really know their music but thought it would be a good experience!

Related to this is how social media can mean that some places, cafes, bakeries, bars whatever become massive hotspots due to social media like in LA there is a pink wall which loads of people travel to for instagram photos and they buy a pink Starbucks drink take a photo or reel then they dump their undrunk drink.

On one hand if people can afford it and get a ticket then why not it's a free country but on the other it is so hard to get tickets for stuff these days or to many places because it's always so busy and over subscribed.

Why is it so much harder to access anything now compared to 20 - 30 years ago when its all so much more expensive?

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Savvysix1984 · 04/09/2026 08:24

I agree op. There were 8 of us trying to get tickets for oasis a few years ago, only I got tickets. We were willing to go to any uk/ Ireland show. Ditto with Coldplay, Taylor swift. So many people I know wanted but couldn’t get tickets. I remember going to concerts as a child/ teen and you might’ve queued outside virgin records for a few hours but we always got tickets and that was for artists that were very big at the time (take that, spice girls etc).

Fizbosshoes · 04/09/2026 08:44

Morepositivemum · 03/09/2026 15:59

Is it hype? I don’t know. Acts that would never have sold out before and even things like runs are hard to get into

I agree, trying to get concert tickets last year and being 100k+ in a queue when ive been in the "waiting room" and logged in at opening time. Not comparable to people camping out or queuing in the 80s/90s - im pretty sure there weren't tens of thousands of them.
Last year I wanted to enter a large half marathon. I hsd to get a presale code. Logged in, admittedly 10 min after the allotted time. It sold out (I think 30k places) in 20 minutes! I did later get a transfer place.

Sesma · 04/09/2026 08:59

A lot of people go that are probably not that interested but can easily afford it so they can post on SM about it if it's a popular thing

Sartre · 04/09/2026 09:02

This may be different but a bugbear of mine is any event linked to Christmas. Tickets go on sale in August or September when surely everyone is skint from summer holiday spending and school uniform. Some events then sell out quickly and the cost is astronomical. I wanted to take my DC to panto for the first time this year but it’s £350 and I can’t justify it. Probably all sold out for weekends now anyway… Same for things like the Polar Express.

Somethinggg · 04/09/2026 11:15

Sartre · 04/09/2026 09:02

This may be different but a bugbear of mine is any event linked to Christmas. Tickets go on sale in August or September when surely everyone is skint from summer holiday spending and school uniform. Some events then sell out quickly and the cost is astronomical. I wanted to take my DC to panto for the first time this year but it’s £350 and I can’t justify it. Probably all sold out for weekends now anyway… Same for things like the Polar Express.

Where do you live? I was looking at panto tickets the other day in my area and there were loads still left. NW England.

LlynTegid · 04/09/2026 11:18

Where I think the internet has made a difference above all, is that you cannot just decide to go, turn up, pay on the door.

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