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AIBU to loath needing to research and buy a "new" car

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RandomMess · 01/09/2026 16:09

As in new to us car, I have comprehensive reasons so surely everyone should I agree I am not being unreasonable to loath the whole process?

  1. Nearly new 2nd hand car prices appear to have doubled in the last 11 years (our salaries have not)
  2. I don't want a new car but the current one seems to have reached the point of beyond economic repair so it no longer a choice, we've been putting it off for 5/6 years
  3. All the major car groups/brands websites seem to have flashing/moving graphics that quite frankly give me a headache as soon as I open them so can't bear to explore them for the information I want
  4. The fancy pants websites don't seem to have the information I want on them
  5. The basic information I want is not easily found so I ending up resorting to AI to find eg. outer dimensions of the vehicle
  6. Far too much choice it's utterly overwhelming
  7. Choosing between part hybrid, full hybrid, plug-in hybrid, electric, petrol, diesel - just too overwhelming
  8. There is no information on "can my 6'4" husband with arthritic knees fit COMFORTABLY in the passenger seat without something digging into said knees
  9. I can't go browsing without DH due said knees
  10. Most cars don't tick the comfortable for DH box so it's an exhausting waste of time ruling out 95% of cars
  11. When I do find a car that I think ticks the boxes I read various reviews and they score badly so no longer have them as an option
  12. About 4/5 cars that I have really wanted over the years have been discontinued or they've changed the shape and/or size so I no longer like them or can't buy one only a few years old
  13. Most of the dealers have closed near us so it's all a bloody trek to even sit in any.
  14. The purchase options, sadly don't have the cash to buy outright so another then to read and digest and make a choice on
  15. My absolute go to Car Review website "Honest John" has been shut down and you can no longer even view the historic reviews they did - seriously disheartened by this discovery.

I've probably listed a fair few rants so need to stop.

OP posts:
Chockachip · 05/09/2026 16:44

You can’t have a small car then expect it to fit a 6’4 arthritic man. Get a big car and stop making such a meal of it 🤣

RandomMess · 05/09/2026 16:49

@Chockachipits not as simple as getting a big car, there are MANY large & very large cars DH does not fit in and a few small cars he does fit in. It’s to do with the design of the cabin/doors/console. I wouldn’t consider a corsa a large car nor a Swift and he fits in both, same with old Fabia models.

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Beamur · 05/09/2026 22:09

We have a Skoda Kamiq. Smaller than the other SUV model (and a lot cheaper) but good driving position.
I think Citroen are also quite roomy and less expensive than other brands. DSD has a smaller Citroen but it's got a great driving position and is roomy and not low down.

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