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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask if I’m being overly picky, or if you’d mention these things in an Airbnb review?

182 replies

raisemyheartrate · 31/08/2026 07:32

I’m currently staying in an Airbnb, solo, and thinking about the review I’ll write.

There are two main sticking points for me:

  1. The listing did not mention, anywhere, that key pick up for the flat is located about half a mile down the road. I didn’t get check in instructions until the day of check in. I had to drag my bags to the flat, at 1 in the morning. It’s just an annoyance that to be honest, I would have avoided if I’d known about it.
  2. The courtyard is really not as described. It was pictured to look huge, with a sea view and sun all day. In reality you can’t see the sea unless you’re in the flat, and the sun is gone by about 8:30 in the morning.

AIBU to mention these? It was an expensive apartment so I think I’m being slightly more critical than I’d usually be

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SethAndReubenTooSendGaloshes · 31/08/2026 08:04

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:00

There would been explicit instructions in the pre arrival pack. If you didn’t like the required access… you could have cancelled.

You only get check in information less than 24 hours before check in on Airbnb and she couldn't have cancelled at that point!

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 31/08/2026 08:04

The key thing yes definitely, the courtyard wouldn’t bother me.

Iocanepowder · 31/08/2026 08:05

Absolutely mention the key thing!

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:05

raisemyheartrate · 31/08/2026 08:01

Which, as I said in my post, arrived on the day of check in and I was therefore outside of the cancellation period.

and this is air BnB? Because if so… that’s completely against how the owners are meant to operate.

Did you have to chase beforehand? Or did you wait for the day and hope for the best?

Is this for holiday or work?

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:05

SethAndReubenTooSendGaloshes · 31/08/2026 08:04

You only get check in information less than 24 hours before check in on Airbnb and she couldn't have cancelled at that point!

No you don’t

raisemyheartrate · 31/08/2026 08:06

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:05

and this is air BnB? Because if so… that’s completely against how the owners are meant to operate.

Did you have to chase beforehand? Or did you wait for the day and hope for the best?

Is this for holiday or work?

I’ve never had an Airbnb provide information any earlier than this to be honest. Travelling for leisure

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Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:07

The owner doesn’t send the access details

air BnB automatically issues 48 hours before arrival

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:07

raisemyheartrate · 31/08/2026 08:06

I’ve never had an Airbnb provide information any earlier than this to be honest. Travelling for leisure

Oh well then don’t waste your holiday stewing about what you’ll write in your review upon departure on Mumsnet!!

enjoy your holiday!

Raptors · 31/08/2026 08:07

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:05

No you don’t

I've only ever had check in details 48 hours before when I've used air b&b which I believe is the policy and would still be too late for someone to cancel a booking. So quibbling over one day seems a smidge pedantic?

SethAndReubenTooSendGaloshes · 31/08/2026 08:08

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:05

No you don’t

You're right, it's 48 hours.
The point is exactly the same.

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:08

Raptors · 31/08/2026 08:07

I've only ever had check in details 48 hours before when I've used air b&b which I believe is the policy and would still be too late for someone to cancel a booking. So quibbling over one day seems a smidge pedantic?

It doesn’t
because the system sends 48 hours before. Not the owner.

and if you don’t like the access because genuinely excessive distance, then this would be grounds to contact air BnB for 100% refund.

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:09

SethAndReubenTooSendGaloshes · 31/08/2026 08:08

You're right, it's 48 hours.
The point is exactly the same.

But you open
read
see the inordinate distance
reasonable grounds to contact air BnB for full refund

2ndHandLou · 31/08/2026 08:09

MelonSorbet · 31/08/2026 07:44

I wouldn't mention either. Half a mile isn't far. I'm used to walking as I don't have a car so it wouldn't even register as an inconvenience with me. It must have taken ten minutes to get from the key pick up to the apartment, if that.

Come off it, who wants to be walking any distance with their luggage in the small hours without notice

No ones impressed by your superior walking skills

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:10

How many reviews does the property have?

not one single mention about the access?

wherethewaterisdarker · 31/08/2026 08:10

Mention both - both are relevant and helpful info for future travellers. I think the more people are honest on Airbnb reviews the better. I get the feeling that many aren’t due to the reciprocal nature of the reviews.

Raptors · 31/08/2026 08:10

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:08

It doesn’t
because the system sends 48 hours before. Not the owner.

and if you don’t like the access because genuinely excessive distance, then this would be grounds to contact air BnB for 100% refund.

They won't refund for that and it would mean the OP would be without accommodation for her trip.

I think it's completely fair to include it in a review so others know about the unusual key collection before booking, don't you?

Mulledjuice · 31/08/2026 08:11

A courtyard is, by definition, typically walled on at least 3 sides so I wouldhave been surprised to be able to see the sea from it.
did the listing actually say sun all day/sea view from courtyard?

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:11

Raptors · 31/08/2026 08:10

They won't refund for that and it would mean the OP would be without accommodation for her trip.

I think it's completely fair to include it in a review so others know about the unusual key collection before booking, don't you?

It absolutely would be grounds

and has the Op confirmed that many reviews and not one mentioned the access?

Nincompoo · 31/08/2026 08:11

I’d mention both. The entirely shady courtyard would be a dealbreaker for me.

fashionqueen0123 · 31/08/2026 08:13

A key safe should be on the property not half a mile down the road!

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:13
  1. **The courtyard is really not as described. It was pictured to look huge, with a sea view and sun all day. In reality you can’t see the sea unless you’re in the flat, and the sun is gone by about 8:30 in the morning.

there was a picture of the courtyard … presumably surrounded by a wall and you can see the sea from the courtyard? That would be unusual

Sophue · 31/08/2026 08:14

I would mention both as they would be importantly facts in helping me decide whether to book or not.

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:14

I am curious why two such serious issues don’t appear to have been mentioned by any other reviewer

thetinsoldier · 31/08/2026 08:15

I’d mention both. People might book the flat so they could sit out in the courtyard.

raisemyheartrate · 31/08/2026 08:16

Premierinnsleep · 31/08/2026 08:14

I am curious why two such serious issues don’t appear to have been mentioned by any other reviewer

Me too! All the reviews focus on the amazing location, which is true. It’s right on the beach and a minute from public transport so I guess other people have overlooked the negatives. I’m not too bothered by the courtyard but the key thing is big for me

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