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Does anyone else do this for the rest of the week if you've been out for a meal?

101 replies

Sshhhitsstillsummer · 30/08/2026 16:29

Never used to, but restaurant prices were not as extortionate as they seem to be nowadays.
Went out for a nice lunch today, spent around 70, which is quite a lot for us, but we wanted an end of holidays last meal.
Now I will probably cut right back for the week on food spending.
For example, simple pasta dishes, omlettes, beans on toast and jacket potatoes for the week.
Does anyone else do this?

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JeanSimmons · 30/08/2026 18:13

Kindling1970 · 30/08/2026 17:36

You know not everyone is rich right? What a disgusting comment. This is a lot of money to lots of people.

Don't be ridiculous.

BakersKitchen · 30/08/2026 18:15

No we don’t do this but we don’t view eating out as food spending so maybe that’s why.

Squirrelblanket · 30/08/2026 18:21

No, because the money for food shopping and eating out comes out of different budgets.

I do plan a couple of cheaper meals in each week anyway.

Evaka · 30/08/2026 18:28

If I've blown a big chunk of disposable income on a meal or night out, I would probably have a few freezer meals the following week. But generally eating out doesn't have a huge impact on my monthly spend.

RowsOfFlowers · 30/08/2026 18:32

Yes, we’d do that if spent a lot on a meal out xx gotta make up for it somewhere xx

FatMrsHoot · 30/08/2026 18:34

No, it will be a bleak day when I have to budget like that.

user1471474138 · 30/08/2026 18:38

Yes, I’d do this but normally in the run up to the meal out not after.

Laurmolonlabe · 30/08/2026 18:46

I would'nt spend £70 on a lunch because of the squeeze it would cause on my discretionery spending.

AbsintheMakesTheHeartGrowFonder · 30/08/2026 18:47

No. If eating out meant I had to have omelettes for the rest of the week, I wouldn’t eat out.

Sshhhitsstillsummer · 30/08/2026 18:48

PromoPerson · 30/08/2026 17:20

£70 for a lunch is madness

Two adults and a child, very good, fresh fish etc

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OhNoooooooooooooooo · 30/08/2026 18:48

JeanSimmons · 30/08/2026 17:07

No. Also, 70.00 for two people is hardly extortionate.

😂😂😂😂

YouBelongWithMe · 30/08/2026 18:51

Same as a PP, we have a different pot for eating out. We add an agreed amount to 'Dining Out' each month and it's separate to our weekly food budget. If it wasn't healthy enough to support the meal out, we wouldn't bother.

Sshhhitsstillsummer · 30/08/2026 18:51

FatMrsHoot · 30/08/2026 18:34

No, it will be a bleak day when I have to budget like that.

Really 😔

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TooOrangey · 30/08/2026 18:52

We probably wouldn’t eat out if it meant we had to scrimp for the rest of the week.

What I do though (and my family take the piss), is if I’ve eaten out at lunchtime, I won’t have dinner. Or if I’m going out for dinner I won’t eat lunch (or breakfast but that’s everyday for me).

IStillHearTheWaves · 30/08/2026 18:54

Isn't this just basic budgeting?

JeanSimmons · 30/08/2026 18:55

Sshhhitsstillsummer · 30/08/2026 18:48

Two adults and a child, very good, fresh fish etc

Three people for £70.00 is fine for a lunch, that is just over £20.00 each. If you can't afford it, you can't, but that is pretty standard nowadays.

JeanSimmons · 30/08/2026 18:55

Sshhhitsstillsummer · 30/08/2026 18:51

Really 😔

Yes, really.

Westfacing · 30/08/2026 18:57

JeanSimmons · 30/08/2026 17:07

No. Also, 70.00 for two people is hardly extortionate.

The OP didn't say it was extortionate - but it was a lot for them

Usernamen · 30/08/2026 18:58

I’m going through a period of anxiety/depression and I’m eating a lot less. I’ve noticed that I’m spending less on food (I know that seems obvious but my brain hasn’t been great at noticing anything lately). Literally spending hundreds less each month. Took me by surprise. I don’t recommend it as a money saving tip of course, but it’s a silver lining to an otherwise dreadful situation.

Loulou4022 · 30/08/2026 18:58

We don’t, as we leave an extra cushion in our joint account for takeaways.

IStillHearTheWaves · 30/08/2026 18:59

PromoPerson · 30/08/2026 17:20

£70 for a lunch is madness

As in cheap or expensive?

It's not expensive in terms of eating out, but if you have a strict budget, it has to be accounted for somewhere.

I'd personally be happy to readjust my budget for a nice meal out.

MxCactus · 30/08/2026 18:59

No - food budget comes under "bills" for us. So it's a constant, similar amount.

Meals out comes under "fun money/discretionary spending" which I have a monthly pot for. If I'd spent all my fun money I wouldn't eat out. If I spent all my fun money on eating out, I might not buy a new top, for example. It wouldn't impact our food budget in that way.

JeanSimmons · 30/08/2026 18:59

Westfacing · 30/08/2026 18:57

The OP didn't say it was extortionate - but it was a lot for them

It was actually three people, apparently.

Fiftyandme · 30/08/2026 19:00

thisismeithinkorisit · 30/08/2026 16:31

Well if you spend beyond what you can really afford, then yes cutting back to spend less in the week is typical. If £70 is pennies to you but you're making some principled point, less typical.

This is a typical week for me, eating cheaper than cheap meals - it’s not ‘cutting back’ and using Olio as much as possible.

IStillHearTheWaves · 30/08/2026 19:00

JeanSimmons · 30/08/2026 18:55

Yes, really.

Lucky you! Have a celebratory biscuit! 🍪

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