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AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results

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Sidedoors · 23/08/2026 16:09

Private school GCSE decline.

What happened? Is this an example of what’s to come?

Fees are rising well beyond inflation annually yet, results are in decline.

State schools prioritising, ‘reserving seats’ in house for 6th Form. Risky investment?

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/gcse-results-day-2026-6-key-trends-from-this-years-data/

AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:05

MsSquiz · 24/08/2026 11:03

Did you read the A level thread? The OP who is presumed to be the same person has a kid in private but they’re bitter about the money they’re spending on their kid’s education not guaranteeing top results.

I haven't read that thread. But I'm guessing she's not genuine, got an ulterior motive. Could be wrong.

Boredofprivateschoolbashing · 24/08/2026 11:11

CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:05

I haven't read that thread. But I'm guessing she's not genuine, got an ulterior motive. Could be wrong.

Exactly. OP is just a sad Labour troll.

CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:13

Boredofprivateschoolbashing · 24/08/2026 11:11

Exactly. OP is just a sad Labour troll.

Yes indeed!

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 11:17

Boxoffrogs21 · 24/08/2026 09:08

Wycombe Abbey is one of the most prestigious girls’ boarding schools in the country, with about 30% of the 6-700 students being international. Wycombe High has 1,200-1,300 students, 10% of whom are eligible for free school meals (obviously not as high as many schools, but for a selective school that’s quite high - other Buckinghamshire grammar schools in the area are around 3%).

As for Lancaster and Winchester being similar in terms of ‘geography’… they’re other ends of the country, and there is quite a substantial difference between Lancashire and Hampshire, at least on a UK scale, so I’m not sure what geography you’re thinking of here. Demographics of the local area may well be similar, but you’ll find that as Winchester is another very prestigious boarding school (20%+ international) that’s not particularly relevant.

I have no particular beef with your point - I was educated at a private school and have taught at independent day and boarding schools, as well as state comprehensives and grammar schools, and am confident that you get a lot for your money going private in many cases. The top public schools like Winchester, Eton, etc. are another level again. But let’s not use silly comparisons - compare independent day schools to state grammars if you want to make a sensible point. Here’s one: the Abbey School in Reading (independent all-girls day school, selective top c.40-50%) vs. Kendrick School at the end of the same road (state all-girls grammar, super-selective top c.3-5%) - Abbey = 87% Grades 7-9 (with 40% Grade 9); Kendrick = 90% Grades 7-9. Kendrick much more selective but scarcely beats the Abbey’s grades. In fact, the Abbey tends to have fewer of the really top ability students, because they go to Kendrick for free. (I don’t work at the Abbey - this is not an advert! But it looks like pretty good value for money to me.)

The article which identifies that independent school no longer represents affluence (written by an independent consumer) explains perfectly the situation.

Families should be aware at point of considering private school that not everyone is wealthy, you will ‘rub shoulders’ with incredibly ‘ordinary’ people.

Data from the ISC proves that 1/3 one third of private school families are on fee assistance (cannot afford to be there subsidised by school money, which you will contribute to, annual fee hikes) thing figure is growing, independent schools are becoming poorer year on year.

I want families to really think and understand “beyond the labels”

If attending private school will push you into hardship, your kids living on rations, going without (this absolutely is happening!) Do not be fooled by the hard-sell of independent schools. Their very survival, ability to operate and keep the lights on is dependent on recruitment (they’ll tell you anything, sell you the dream).

Standards are slipping as they are forced to economise and cut-back, trim the fat. This is reality.

There are wealthier families, wealthier children attending U.K. state schools, there are higher achieving children attending state schools. University admissions easier to access for all.

Before you sign, contracted to £250+ per child it is essential to research. If you’re paying the full sticker price it is no use to you seeking counsel from any of the 1/3 one third on discounts, bursary, staff fee remission, of course they’re going to tell you it’s outstanding!

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Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 11:19

Whyarepeople · 24/08/2026 10:38

A country that accepts the idea that some children can get a better education because they are wealthier is a total failure. It's something to be utterly ashamed of. A functioning, well-organised state should be able to make sure every child has access to great education. It really is bottom of the barrel stuff.

That said, private education in the UK is not solely about grades, it's about buying access and connections for your child, perpetuating class inequality. Questions around grades are a bit silly in a situation where being part of the Old Boys Club is more valuable than any GCSE.

But should a failing state, that does not provide good education to all, deny parents the right to source that education outwith the state? Or health services? Or pensions? Or housing?

Whyarepeople · 24/08/2026 11:20

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 11:19

But should a failing state, that does not provide good education to all, deny parents the right to source that education outwith the state? Or health services? Or pensions? Or housing?

No.

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 11:20

The A level thread died because people got bored

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 11:21

Boredofprivateschoolbashing · 24/08/2026 11:11

Exactly. OP is just a sad Labour troll.

I’ve seen too many of my personal friends suffering, their kids suffering making payments to a corrupt tiered business “pyramid scheme” masquerading as education provision for their children.

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Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 11:22

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 11:20

The A level thread died because people got bored

It maximised 40 pages and 1000 replies.

I was unable to add further comments. MN explained its full. Capacity.

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Charlotte120221 · 24/08/2026 11:34

OP I really have no idea what you're saying?

The article you quote admits that the 'drop' is so small that it might be a statistical anomaly.

If you're not sure you're getting value for money for your kids by sending the private then switch!

All the independents near us did really well in the recent exam round.

And lots of parents are choosing independent for bigger reasons than exam results.

VAT will make some schools financially precarious. It won't make the whole sector suddenly cut all extra curriculars and stop employing quality staff.

Grade inflation has been a thing for decades - not sure why you're so exercised about it now? Someone will be along to advise that they're introducing a grade 9 star (or a grade 10) shortly

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 11:36

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 11:21

I’ve seen too many of my personal friends suffering, their kids suffering making payments to a corrupt tiered business “pyramid scheme” masquerading as education provision for their children.

Yet none of you are capable of making changes. It is only one term’s notice you have to give at most schools and you are not required to leave your children there for that term. If available state schools don’t appeal for whatever reason then it is up to you to decide if it is worth paying for the difference or look at a different private school.

The school might be at fault in persuading you to start there, but if you don’t like it and stay then the fault is all yours.

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 11:39

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 11:36

Yet none of you are capable of making changes. It is only one term’s notice you have to give at most schools and you are not required to leave your children there for that term. If available state schools don’t appeal for whatever reason then it is up to you to decide if it is worth paying for the difference or look at a different private school.

The school might be at fault in persuading you to start there, but if you don’t like it and stay then the fault is all yours.

By that time you risk your children being socially unsettled. It’s a huge consideration.

Do not put your children into private school if it will put you into debt or financial hardship.

There are already 1 in 3 in that boat within private schools. Operating budgets cut to the bone, cut backs to provision and standards to plaster over internal financial black holes.

If you’re outside of London your fees will pay these deficits.

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MsSquiz · 24/08/2026 11:44

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 11:22

It maximised 40 pages and 1000 replies.

I was unable to add further comments. MN explained its full. Capacity.

And most of those comments were you repeating yourself and replying to yourself.

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 11:45

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 11:39

By that time you risk your children being socially unsettled. It’s a huge consideration.

Do not put your children into private school if it will put you into debt or financial hardship.

There are already 1 in 3 in that boat within private schools. Operating budgets cut to the bone, cut backs to provision and standards to plaster over internal financial black holes.

If you’re outside of London your fees will pay these deficits.

Loads of children move school for all sorts of reasons. Including because their parents decide not to continue paying private school fees.

You are not forced to stay somewhere you don’t like.

GirlsInGreen · 24/08/2026 11:59

The most bizarre threads!

"Show me on the dolly where the private school hurt you"

FourSevenFive · 24/08/2026 12:55

Ok, so your point is - if you considered putting child in private school from wrong reasons, don't do it.

You might have to rub shoulders with <shock> ordinary people, some of them will use bursaries or even <double shock> staff discount.

And there is no guarantee your child will get better marks even though you pay for it.

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 13:32

FourSevenFive · 24/08/2026 12:55

Ok, so your point is - if you considered putting child in private school from wrong reasons, don't do it.

You might have to rub shoulders with <shock> ordinary people, some of them will use bursaries or even <double shock> staff discount.

And there is no guarantee your child will get better marks even though you pay for it.

I think she is resentful of those on bursaries and thinks private school is a waste of money - but doesn’t want her (currently primary) child to have to go to a state school unless it is a super duper selective that gets high grades and full of children of appropriate people. And doesn’t want to move private school either. But does reserve the right to complain about it. Repeatedly.

CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 13:35

MsSquiz · 24/08/2026 11:44

And most of those comments were you repeating yourself and replying to yourself.

😂😆

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 13:38

Backtoschooloncemore · 24/08/2026 13:32

I think she is resentful of those on bursaries and thinks private school is a waste of money - but doesn’t want her (currently primary) child to have to go to a state school unless it is a super duper selective that gets high grades and full of children of appropriate people. And doesn’t want to move private school either. But does reserve the right to complain about it. Repeatedly.

Where are you getting all of this?

Fantasists!

If there’s nothing to hide then why would anyone protest and hurl insults towards anyone for simply suggesting.

Research the individual school finance.

Research results

Speak to other families (who are full fee payers) enquire if there have been any school begging letters, any cancelled co curricular or any complaints. They will tell you.

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Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 13:40

CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 13:35

😂😆

Any full fee paying family or friends of such will know that no full fee payer is remotely finding the current situation amusing.

Make of that what you will……

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 13:41

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 13:40

Any full fee paying family or friends of such will know that no full fee payer is remotely finding the current situation amusing.

Make of that what you will……

What?

Sidedoors · 24/08/2026 13:42

CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 13:35

😂😆

I urge families to start sharing the begging letters (not just on what’s app chats) online. Once the illusion is destroyed and the spell is broken everyone will see things as they are.

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HollyhocksandPeons · 24/08/2026 13:42

Speaking as a private school parent, I think private school fees should only be increased after all other options have been exhausted - like removal of bursaries.