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Camping dilemma since fire alert

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SaturdayGiraffe · 15/08/2026 07:27

Off camping next week but been told no cooking stoves allowed now - so no hot water, no hot food.
There’s no pub or shops nearby either.

The site is saying we are inside 14 day cancellation so they are charging to move the dates back and we’ll lose full amount if we go elsewhere (although not even sure where else since the phone alert).

Camping with kids, with no hot food or drink - would you do it?

Does anyone know a site where we could cook still?

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SatansScrotum · 16/08/2026 12:43

Ioaf · 15/08/2026 08:52

I feel like this is reaching the level of suggestions we had on COVID threads 😂 Not everyone who camps wants to completely rough it for a week. This might be the OP's main summer holiday - a cheaper alternative to a week somewhere slightly more luxurious. I'm camping next week and could just about manage without my morning coffee but if the week became about eating cold baked beans, I would rather just cancel. Even if the children enjoyed it, I wouldn't.

Do you really need to drag me down for making suggestions? Take the piss out of my main holiday? Couldn't just add your own ideas?

Ioaf · 16/08/2026 13:12

SatansScrotum · 16/08/2026 12:43

Do you really need to drag me down for making suggestions? Take the piss out of my main holiday? Couldn't just add your own ideas?

I said myself I'm going camping next week. You must surely know that eating cold baked beans and cold tinned spaghetti wouldn't be acceptable to most people. We're outdoorsy people friends with lots of other outdoorsy people and that's not something anyone I know would even consider. Most people who go camping, unless carrying their stuff hiking or whatever, enjoy little treats like coffees. As you say it's a holiday and for most people that would mean food that is at least as pleasant (or close to it) as what they could eat at home.

Having said that, I wasn't trying to upset anyone and I'm sorry if I did. I just felt your suggestions were quite extreme.

penelopepocket · 16/08/2026 14:04

ThreadGuardDog · 16/08/2026 12:42

This. It substantially alters the holiday offered and paid for, so they should be offering refunds. Which is probably why they’re not answering emails.

The link is about the whole of the New Forest, not one particular campsite. I assume (could be wrong I guess) that it’s the parks authority that looks after the NF that has set these rules and the campsites within it will have to follow them?

Bromptotoo · 16/08/2026 18:15

penelopepocket · 16/08/2026 14:04

The link is about the whole of the New Forest, not one particular campsite. I assume (could be wrong I guess) that it’s the parks authority that looks after the NF that has set these rules and the campsites within it will have to follow them?

The link I saw was about the Forestry Commission's camping in the forest offer.

I suspect they've gone for the 'thick red lines' approach of just saying no rather than getting in debates over how one might manage a gas stove safely.

crackofdoom · 16/08/2026 19:25

Gresley · 16/08/2026 12:15

I can't believe some people are not taking the fire risk seriously and feel so entitled that they think having being able to cook their own meals and make their own coffee is more important than the risk of setting fire to trees, fields and buildings and giving the overstretched fire service more work than they can handle. I spent two months each summer for three years camping in France without taking a camping stove and with hardly a hot meal in the entire time. I got coffee in cafes, but only after I had cycled to them in the morning, then lived on their fabulous bread and cheese. Surely wherever you are going cannot be that far from a garage or shop or cafe. Get a grip and resolve to take on the challenge. Kids love an adventure. Either that or stay home and be miserable.

Unusual choice you made there, given that I have never ever heard of French campsites banning camping stoves, and that they are usually full of French people enjoying lavish dinners they have cooked on gas stoves and BBQS.

But you do you I suppose 🤷‍♀️

Packofsix · 17/08/2026 08:51

ThreadGuardDog · 15/08/2026 21:27

The camp site won’t change the dates - OP detailed this in an update. The camp site are trying to hang on to OP’s money while not delivering the holiday OP booked. They’re not answering emails - why do you think that is ?

A deposit for a campsite will not be a lot. I repeat, just change the dates.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 17/08/2026 16:39

Packofsix · 17/08/2026 08:51

A deposit for a campsite will not be a lot. I repeat, just change the dates.

People cant always change the dates though. OP might have booked time off work, the kids might be booked into other things on the other weeks etc. She said this was their only holiday so maybe just wanted to talk it through and come up with a way to manage.

Witchergeralt · 17/08/2026 17:17

You can purchase a USB kettle which will boil off your car battery and give you hot drinks. You could also get Chilly Bottles which keep hot water hot for 12 hours (and they really do) and get them filled at a cafe for a nominal cost. Cold food in hot weather is fine, you'll not die for not having a hot meal for a few days. Go and be inventive.

Iworkmiricles · 17/08/2026 22:06

Not sure where you are going, but there is a campsite in the Scottish borders allowing fire pits (using their pits & fuel) or your own usual stove /cooking

Bromptotoo · 18/08/2026 10:06

Iworkmiricles · 17/08/2026 22:06

Not sure where you are going, but there is a campsite in the Scottish borders allowing fire pits (using their pits & fuel) or your own usual stove /cooking

We forget that Scotland and the north of England have not had the months of next to no rain in the south.

In the lakes a week ago we had a night's worth of 'stair rods' albeit followed by four days almost cloud free.

MatchaTea1 · 18/08/2026 15:35

Happyasapiginmuck1 · 15/08/2026 16:17

I'd be cancelling, wanting all my money back and they can claim off their insurance. They've had to change the terms that you agreed to at the time of booking, they've broken that contract. Not there fault, but not yours either.

Yes this 100%. Did you pay by credit card? If so ask them to reverse the payment as you are not getting what you signed up for..

ThreadGuardDog · 18/08/2026 20:28

Packofsix · 17/08/2026 08:51

A deposit for a campsite will not be a lot. I repeat, just change the dates.

And lose the deposit for something not her fault ? Why do you think OP should give in to the campsite who clearly know they are wrong /

Ioaf · 23/08/2026 19:40

Did you go OP and if so how was it?

SaturdayGiraffe · 24/08/2026 10:48

hi @loaf thanks for checking, yes it went ahead. We stuck to the rules although others ignored them. Also packed the electric kettle and was able to boil water and carry it so that was fine.
By the last day it was definitely time to leave, iykwim. Kids enjoyed their time, that's main thing.

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Bromptotoo · 25/08/2026 11:11

Seen reference to other sites with a no naked flame policy. If people asked they were told it applied to Cadac and similar gas barbecues.

If you didn't ask and just used it no action taken.

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