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CF behaviour from friend at my house?

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Jany2 · 30/07/2026 12:44

I hosted my friend yesterday for coffee and a catch up. She excused herself to use the bathroom a couple of times (which I’d cleaned before hand). When I went to use it after she left, I was greeted by an extremely messy scene. She had obviously had an upset stomach but made no attempt to clean after herself nor mention it to me. Is it wrong to call her a CF?! I wouldn’t dream of going to someone’s house and leaving it in such a state.

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Gladitsraining · 30/07/2026 12:47

Absolutely agree OP.

anon12345anon · 30/07/2026 12:51

Yeah, if there was bleach and /or a toilet brush, she should've cleaned up after herself.

Lurkingandlearning · 30/07/2026 12:54

Even if there wasn't a toilet brush and cleaning products in sight, she could have wet some (a lot of) toilet paper, cleaned up, flushed and then washed her hands. There really isn't any excuse for leaving that mess for someone else to deal with

MathsMum3 · 30/07/2026 13:25

How bizarre! She must have known that you would find this mess and know it was she who left it. Has she no shame?

I would be inclined to follow it up with a text message: "Hi Sophie, I hope you're feeling better today. Couldn't help noticing that you left the bathroom in a bit of a state when you left yesterday - had to get my marigolds out to clear up!"

Idontjetwashthefucker · 30/07/2026 14:06

Really? Poo troll?

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