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AIBU to resent being asked to pay for neighbours cutting back our tree?

103 replies

Eatyourgreensplease · 24/07/2026 22:57

We have lived in our house for 20+ years in most of that time the house next door to us has been rented out with various families having lived in the house in that time. Recently the landlord evicted a family and is making extensive improvements to the house because of the damage caused.
We have a tree on our boundary (think ornamental blossom type) which we keep shaped and tidy on our side. We have done the same on the neighbours side in the past but recently the tenants in the property have not been in agreement to us doing this. As a result the tree has grown into the neighbours garden quite significantly and no attempt has been made to keep it trimmed. Today the landlord has asked us to pay to have the tree cut back to the boundary line and for the debris to be removed. Apparently the letting agent has advised them that if we don’t agree to do this, then the branches should just be thrown over into our garden!

We agreed will cut back the tree and deal with the debris, but am I unreasonable to think the landlord and previous tenants are CFs who should have not allowed it to get to this state? And while I recognise that it is by law their right to cut back the tree that has grown onto their property, it’s also unreasonable to expect us to pay to deal with that? Surely that’s just something we all take care of in our own gardens?

OP posts:
MayaPyjama · Today 13:18

Choccyp1g · Today 13:02

Well in that case, the houses maybe should not have been built so close to the existing trees.

Trees aren’t a menace that sneak up on you while they’re sleeping. They’re perfectly ordinary (and on the whole very good!) things to have growing in a garden.

TalkToTheHand123 · Today 13:21

I'm confused. My neighbours let their trees overhang to my side. I cut and throw back. Done this for years. Is this not ok?

Choccyp1g · Today 13:24

MayaPyjama · Today 13:18

Trees aren’t a menace that sneak up on you while they’re sleeping. They’re perfectly ordinary (and on the whole very good!) things to have growing in a garden.

I agree trees and bushes (including brambles) are wonderful things.

Even more so when they are planted in appropriate positions where they can grow to their natural size.

Choccyp1g · Today 13:24

Brambles do sneak up on you though.

ZenNudist · Today 13:28

First post nails it. He pays. He disposes of waste (unless you want it)

ImogenBrocklehurst · Today 13:32

Choccyp1g · Today 11:04

You need to dig up the tree and replant it so that the natural sized canopy is inside your garden.
This might kill it, but you or the previous owners should have thought of that before positioning it on the boundary.

Are you being deliberately ridiculous?

Namechangewegovyjune26 · Today 13:36

minipie · 24/07/2026 23:01

There’s no obligation on you to pay. They are entitled to cut back to their fence but they need to pay. And they are supposed to offer the cuttings to you, not dump them over the fence. If you don’t want the cuttings they are supposed to dispose of them.

Send them the RHS page here, for example.

Yes I would also find the letting agent and ask to speak to the owner about the “advice” they are giving out….

RandomUsernameHere · Today 13:37

I don’t understand all the votes for YABU, OP tried to keep the tree maintained and wasn’t allowed access. It’s probably now become a bigger job.

ScholesPanda · Today 13:41

Disappointedlama · Today 12:05

I’ve never seen so many factually incorrect replies on a post before 😂. The first poster had it right, they can cut the tree back to the boundary line but they pay for it. They have to offer you the branches, but if you don’t want them, they need to dispose of them at their expense. If they just throw them over the fence it’s fly tipping. We’ve just paid to have our neighbours’ trees and hedges cut back as they were overhanging our garden on three sides. Didn’t occur to me to ask them to pay.

If you want to be VERY nice, you can offer to pay half. But legally you don’t need to. And he’s a CF for demanding it.

Mumsnet is full of people who think that if they have decided something is fair or morally right, the law will agree with them.

Being on Mumsnet has been instructive in understanding why so many people undertake litigation they aren't likely to win, or is unlikely to be cost effective.

EmailsaysOOO · Today 13:43

You don't have to pay . Why not let them deal with it?

Choccyp1g · Today 13:48

ImogenBrocklehurst · Today 13:32

Are you being deliberately ridiculous?

Well, I was sort of joking, but so many people who also have trees too big for there garden have got so cross, I am becoming more entrenched.

My basic point is that if you want a big tree, plant it well away from the boundary.

If you want a small tree that needs pruning, plant it far enough from the boundary so that you can prune it without going next door.

Allseeingallknowing · Today 13:49

TalkToTheHand123 · Today 13:21

I'm confused. My neighbours let their trees overhang to my side. I cut and throw back. Done this for years. Is this not ok?

OP made it clear the neighbours wouldn’t let them cut it back!

Jellybean23 · Today 14:04

If the tree canopy was wholly within your boundary, you would quite happily have paid for the whole tree to be trimmed. Technically you can refuse to pay but why not be the bigger person and pay?

Crafty09 · Today 14:07

Your neighbour is well within their rights to cut the tree to the boundary provided it does not destabilise the tree. If it is large tree and their actions destabilise the tree that is a different matter. I am assuming as it’s an ornamental tree it does not fall into that category, so it’s not likely to fall on the house for example. It is your responsibility to look after the tree, I understand the annoyance with the tenant but it sounds like the agreement should have been with the landlord.

minipie · Today 14:07

TalkToTheHand123 · Today 13:21

I'm confused. My neighbours let their trees overhang to my side. I cut and throw back. Done this for years. Is this not ok?

you’re meant to offer back, not throw back.

Runsaway · Today 14:11

YANBU. Some bonkers replies on here. It’s completely their responsibility to cut back anything on their side, and to pay for it. They need to offer the offcuts to you, but you don’t have to accept, and so it’s their responsibility to dispose of them. The fact that it’s your tree has nothing to do with it.

CinnamonJellyBeans · Today 14:24

I wouldn't want my any of my trees to be at the mercy of a random person trimming them, with no regard to weight stability, disease prevention, or aesthetics. I'd pay for it myself this time, but ask the landlord to insert a tenancy clause that allows you to maintain the tree 2 x a year

MrMucker · Today 14:32

Choccyp1g · Today 11:04

You need to dig up the tree and replant it so that the natural sized canopy is inside your garden.
This might kill it, but you or the previous owners should have thought of that before positioning it on the boundary.

Seriously, you shouldn't be posting on a thread with a tree query if all you can come up with is unfeasible cod science!

Ethelspagetti · Today 14:36

TheCurious0range · Today 11:16

Wet have to pay to get our neighbour's tree cut back because it takes over the back of our garden the bottom end of their garden is completely overgrown with brambles and bushes and trees, I really resent it but the landlord doesn't care and the tenants won't pay. I would really to the landlord and tell him his tenants refused access and trust to pay, tell him to get the next tenants to sign in their context that they permit access for the trees to be trimmed and then maintain your trees

That’s a really good idea.

Choccyp1g · Today 14:36

MrMucker · Today 14:32

Seriously, you shouldn't be posting on a thread with a tree query if all you can come up with is unfeasible cod science!

What does "unfeasible cod science" mean?

I have moved trees in the past, up to 15 feet high. You have to be quite expert, and do it at the right time of year. It is not realistic if half the roots are in someone else's garden though.

However, as already mentioned I was sort of joking.

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · Today 15:01

Choccyp1g · Today 11:04

You need to dig up the tree and replant it so that the natural sized canopy is inside your garden.
This might kill it, but you or the previous owners should have thought of that before positioning it on the boundary.

What planet are you on love? You can hardly dig up a mature tree with a spade. 😆Plus most people wouldn't be able to get a digger onto their property so don't offer that idea either.

AInightingale · Today 15:01

ohdear2 · Yesterday 00:39

Our neighbours trees feel into our garden during a storm. Think big enough debris to need a chain saw to sort out. My neighbourgh told me it was our problem. I was very angry! After much research including the council tree section (yes they all have one) and speaking to the tree society ... I was told not only was our my problem but to add insult to injury I could not dispose of the debris I had to give the debris back to neighbour as they technically owned it. So I threw it over their fence (which I was prob not allowed to do but hey ho).

I have this problem (the bloody thing must be 60ft). Does that mean if it, or part of it, should fall in a storm and damage my house, shed or fences, that the neighbour who owns it is not liable?

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · Today 15:03

ScholesPanda · Today 13:41

Mumsnet is full of people who think that if they have decided something is fair or morally right, the law will agree with them.

Being on Mumsnet has been instructive in understanding why so many people undertake litigation they aren't likely to win, or is unlikely to be cost effective.

Mumsnet is also full of people who are totally lacking in common sense on some subjects.

Retrolady13 · Today 15:16

Maybe I've missed something, but is there any reason why you can't ask the LL to allow you access to cut it back?

ProfessorSlocombe · Today 15:16

AInightingale · Today 15:01

I have this problem (the bloody thing must be 60ft). Does that mean if it, or part of it, should fall in a storm and damage my house, shed or fences, that the neighbour who owns it is not liable?

If they can be shown to have been negligent, then they can be liable. It's their property.