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Is this unhygienic?!

753 replies

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 07:55

I have an Airbnb on my property. It’s basically a tiny home at the bottom of our large garden with an amazing view. Most people come for the weekend by train and I don’t want people to spend their holiday shopping for stuff like coffee, tea, milk or having to cram suitcases full of toiletries or beach towels so I provide all of those. I also provide a little evening snack (crisps usually) some wine to watch the sun set on the deck with and fruit from the garden and a croissant and jam for breakfast. People love it and I make it quite clear on my ads that these things are provided.
Just got a review from a couple who stayed with us a few days ago. They gave us a good review but took one star off and in her private message to me she said ‘We loved our stay with you but we weren’t very happy that the toiletries are in big shared bottles rather than individual use. This is obviously very unhygienic (we don’t know who has used them!!) so we had to make the trip to buy some for ourselves which was an expense and effort we weren’t expecting’.
To be clear I offer Aesop Shower Gel, Shampoo and Conditioner in the shower and Aesop Hand Wash by the sink in 500ml bottles. They get replaced when empty which is usually about every 10 months
AIBU to think this is not unhygienic?!

OP posts:
Navyontop · 23/07/2026 13:45

I see this as absolute nonsense.
It’s incredibly bad for the environment to have hundreds of little plastic bottles, so that’s a bonus on your side!

BigGra · 23/07/2026 13:45

There are suggestions that topping up toiletries ( and not washing out the container in between top ups) can lead to contamination and a buildup up of bioforms and mould. - so I guess this might me the suggestion it is ‘ unhygienic’ can’t say it would bother me but that being said I always bring my own toiletries to airbnb but would have happily used the supplied Aesop instead of my own.

TheSmellOfSea · 23/07/2026 13:46

Noodles1234 · 23/07/2026 13:44

Yes she is being fussy. You could word it as they can bring their own or there will be toiletries on offer should you need.

Good idea

MathiasBroucek · 23/07/2026 13:46

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:02

They are pump bottles and they are sort of ‘locked’ into a shelf in the shower like you might see at a hotel.
I travel a lot for work and see this set up in fancy hotels all the time. Can’t remember when I last got those individual little bottles of plastic landfill.

Me too. And some guests may prefer the large bottles on environmental grounds..

Creamteasandbumblebees · 23/07/2026 13:47

Ive just come back from a stay at an upmarket hotel. The shampoo/Conditioner/Body wash were all in pump containers that were attached to the wall in the shower.
I wouldn't worry too much about her review, some people like complain for the sake of it! Your place sounds lovely 😍

Grammarnut · 23/07/2026 13:48

Oscillating · 23/07/2026 12:47

You rinse the top of the bottle off? With water?
What good will that do??? 😂😂😂😂

Of you think rinsing a bottle top off with water cleans it enough to kill any lingering germs ... Then you think rinsing hands with water is enough 😂😂😂😂😂😂

What do you do with those ones that are wall mounted? That you can't clean?

It's soap. It is antiseptic. No germs. It kills them. That's the point of soap.

Mistymagic77 · 23/07/2026 13:48

loislaneloves · 23/07/2026 08:02

They are pump bottles and they are sort of ‘locked’ into a shelf in the shower like you might see at a hotel.
I travel a lot for work and see this set up in fancy hotels all the time. Can’t remember when I last got those individual little bottles of plastic landfill.

Me too. Most high-end hotels do this now. I am sure they have to to satisfy certain environmental credentials. Your Airbnb sounds amazing!

superspideysense · 23/07/2026 13:49

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 23/07/2026 13:43

To avoid this I would buy tiny bottles (travel one) and I would fill them for every guest :)

You are very kind to do this and I think that it how it should be done, however I can see their point. x

They would get taken home though.

MagpieMagic · 23/07/2026 13:51

So all the people saying they wouldn’t use because other people have, do you not use the soap dispensers in public toilets either? The product inside hasn’t been used, then put back for goodness sake 🤣

mydogisthebest · 23/07/2026 13:51

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 23/07/2026 13:43

To avoid this I would buy tiny bottles (travel one) and I would fill them for every guest :)

You are very kind to do this and I think that it how it should be done, however I can see their point. x

The OP should not have to do this to pander to strange people. Good chance too that some people would steal the travel bottles so she would be forever buying new ones.

You may see their point but by far the majority on this thread do not and, as I and a few others have said, if you feel that way take your own toiletries.

hipposcanweartutus · 23/07/2026 13:52

Can see both sides to this! If they are in “locked” pump containers then no problem but if they were in standard bottles like we have at home, I would be worried in case someone had put something in it! I always take my own regardless but I am quite happy to use ones with the pump if the customer can’t open them! Personally wouldn’t stress over her comments!

LeedsLoiner · 23/07/2026 13:52

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 23/07/2026 13:08

There's a lot less chance that someones going to have had time in a public toilet to get it off the wall, open the container and have a wank into it then there is is the privacy of an airbnb

To quote the much missed Sean Lock "that's a challenging wank!" 😀

LeedsLoiner · 23/07/2026 13:53

MaturingCheeseball · 23/07/2026 13:17

Not hygiene related, but I remember aeons ago on MN a poster receiving an email from the b&b where she’d stayed requesting return/reimbursement for the high-end toiletries the OP had taken. Posters were up in arms on her behalf… and then it transpired she’d helped herself to three big 500ml bottles. Still some posters were outraged - I guess this was before it was the norm to provide refillable bottles instead of individual ones, but still - do people really snaffle the big bottles?

Having spent a summer working in a hotel, if it's not bolted to the floor people will try and take it.

sewlittletimetosew · 23/07/2026 13:54

I have stayed in many AirBnbs where there has been no soap etc at all. If I'd come to yours I'd have been delighted! It sounds a lovely property and I am sure the other reviews and photos speak for themselves. Sadly, despite all your efforts there are always going to be one or two who find fault. Continue what you are doing and try not to let it bother you. I have seen exactly the same set up in hotels so can't see any problem myself. If they are that fussy then they should bring their own!

Abricot1983 · 23/07/2026 13:54

Hope you have an alcohol licence if your leaving alcohol.

LeedsLoiner · 23/07/2026 13:54

Hocuspocuspreparatus · 23/07/2026 13:43

To avoid this I would buy tiny bottles (travel one) and I would fill them for every guest :)

You are very kind to do this and I think that it how it should be done, however I can see their point. x

What do you think the odds of them still being there at the end of the stay are?

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 23/07/2026 13:55

I don’t know whether someone else has already mentioned this… a bloke was in court for wanking into bottles like this. Grim. It was only discovered because of CCTV of some kind, I don’t remember the details.

Most of us can ignore that risk. Some of us are now twitchy forever more!

MumOf4totstoteens · 23/07/2026 13:55

Lots of major hotel chains have the big bottles with screw holders screwed to the wall. I don’t see the issue. It’s not like you’re telling them to use a bar of communal soap on their bits! The products are in bottles! I really don’t see their issue tbh

GetBackUpAgain · 23/07/2026 13:57

I would include photo in description on your Airbnb page so people can see what to expect and then can pack their own if they arent happy. I wouldn't change what you supply.
The 1 star knocked off is petty.

MrsShawnHatosy · 23/07/2026 13:57

hipposcanweartutus · 23/07/2026 13:52

Can see both sides to this! If they are in “locked” pump containers then no problem but if they were in standard bottles like we have at home, I would be worried in case someone had put something in it! I always take my own regardless but I am quite happy to use ones with the pump if the customer can’t open them! Personally wouldn’t stress over her comments!

I’ve stayed in a lovely spa hotel where there were free standing large bottles of Temple Spa toiletries in the bathroom (along with a pointed notice asking guests not to remove them and that they could be bought from reception). It honestly did not cross my mind that they might have been tampered with.

mydogisthebest · 23/07/2026 13:57

I am interested to know if the posters who would not use these toiletries ever eat out?

I would be far more concerned about the state of some kitchens plus the possibility of someone spitting into your food.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 23/07/2026 13:58

I could understand it with a bar of soap that touches your skin, but you use the shampoo after it comes out of the bottle. Your skin or hair at no point touches anything that's left in the bottle.

anma302 · 23/07/2026 13:59

I don't see it as any more unhygienic than washing your hands in a public toilet with the communal soap they provide.
It's far more hygienic to provide them than not to wash your hands after using the toilet for example.
Many hotels i have recently been to now providing big bottles as it's kinder to the environment.

MaggieBsBoat · 23/07/2026 14:01

She is being ridiculous. I’ve had the good fortune in life to spend a lot of time with microbiologists and there is nothing unhygienic about those large dispensers. People with daft notions are just making life more difficult for themselves, which is their problem. She shouldn’t have removed a star just because she is daft!

Spreadingthinly · 23/07/2026 14:03

Increasingly hotels use the larger bottles- much more environmentally friendly. I wouldn’t have a problem with it and would be delighted with Aesop toiletries. It sounds like a great set up!

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