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AIBU to feel like Andy Burnham is an impostor?

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NotABeliever · 22/07/2026 23:48

Whenever I see him on TV, my first reaction is a jolt of disbelief — as if Andy Burnham has somehow staged a stunt and pushed out the person who actually earned the right to be in Number 10 but somehow everyone is ok with this. It feels like a con, like he’s occupying a role that isn’t his.

What’s strange is that I don’t dislike Andy Burnham, and I’m hardly a devoted Starmer supporter. Yet something about the way Starmer was removed and replaced so abruptly feels fundamentally wrong and unserious . I keep thinking: Starmer is the one who won the election, not Burnham — so how is Burnham now the Prime Minister? It feels like a huge injustice.

I understand that in the UK we elect a party, not a president, and that whoever leads the party becomes PM. But even within that system, it’s hard to accept that a sitting Prime Minister can be shown the door simply for not being popular enough. With three years until the next general election, how can anyone confidently claim Starmer would have lost? Polls swing constantly.

It just feels like a moment of madness — a sudden upheaval that’s left us starting from scratch with a new cabinet and a new agenda, right when the previous team was in the middle of governing and getting on with the job. I can’t shake the sense that something about this isn’t right, and I’m struggling to make peace with it.

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ClarkeandNewman · 23/07/2026 09:01

NoisyUmberBalonz · 23/07/2026 08:56

I never said you weren't. Please could you articulate what he did that means we should have to replace him with all this attendant fuss (I'll give you one for free - the way the assisted strong bill was handled, but I doubt you could pinpoint something massive he did that wasn't about his MPs being upset, rather than the electorate)?

PS Burnham will not be able to do anything fundamentally different to Starmer to stave if reform, except have a better voice, which might work tbf given the thought people seem to put into politics these days.

Edited

He attempted to court the "hero voters" (Reform voters) and neglected his voter base. He made two fairly significant errors immediately (casting doom and gloom, appearing corrupt by accepting free gifts) and he failed to make a clear distinction between Labour and the outgoing government (targeting disabled people and pensioners). Many felt he fudged the Gaza issue and was overly accommodating to Trump, with no real return. He appeared to have no real beliefs and values, he could have been the leader of any of the mainstream parties. He didn't address the cost of living crisis in any meaningful way. And by all accounts he ignored his constituents!

Newbutoldfather · 23/07/2026 09:02

@Dragonflyandthepondskater ,

Blair/Brown?

Wasn’t Brown annointed? There was even strong rumours that, over a dinner at Granita (now sadly closed down) Brown agreed to stand down if Blair would swap with him after one term, which didn’t happen.

That was meant to be what caused rancour between them.

ClarkeandNewman · 23/07/2026 09:03

LuckyHazelFox · 23/07/2026 08:59

Why was it on Starmer to stop Reform?

Why was it the responsibility of the prime minister to address the issues facing this country so that people didn't turn to hard right populism? Is that a genuine question?

cloudtreecarpet · 23/07/2026 09:03

FortnamsTea · 23/07/2026 09:00

AB is in love with the very idea of himself. AB is chucking around funded populist measures ('what voters want') & further promises. 'Jam today and jam tomorrow'. KS told us 2 years ago: 'it will feel worse before it feels better'. Correct - his team were actually fixing 14 years of Tory / covid/ brexit mess. Many things were improving in the UK. He had the Ukraine & USA/ Iran conflicts & effects on oil/COL to deal with. And the most unstable 'special relationship' in decades. KS was outstanding internationally - awarded medals by France & Ukraine. AB - and Streeting as Defence sec, God help is, will be eaten alive by Trump & Vance.
It is not helpful for the UK, long, medium or even short term. We don't need bread & circuses, we need time served states-people & politicians who don't believe their own BS. I hope the short cabinet meeting clip was not how things will proceed.

Well said
Starmer suffered so much because the right wing media, the Daily Mail in particular, hated him.

Wonder why they hated him so much and we're hell bent in getting rid of him & seemed keen to let Burnham in?

Because he was actually going to do a good job and make Labour a force to be reckoned with perhaps?

Shakeoffyourchains · 23/07/2026 09:04

The British Public: Spend over two years bashing Starmer (yes, it happened even before he became PM) and demanding he resign on an almost a daily basis.

The British Public: acts shocked and appalled when Starmer resigns but immediately start doing the same with the next PM.

We really are an ungovernable bunch of brats.

LuckyHazelFox · 23/07/2026 09:05

ClarkeandNewman · 23/07/2026 09:03

Why was it the responsibility of the prime minister to address the issues facing this country so that people didn't turn to hard right populism? Is that a genuine question?

Of course it's a genuine question. Do you believe in democracy or not? Starmer tried to halt the local elections and look how that turned out. Do you think he should have been responsible for putting the brake on the Green party?

JimBobsWife · 23/07/2026 09:06

EasternStandard · 23/07/2026 08:57

Ok fair enough on whether his economic approach will work. I’m waiting to see what the bigger plans are later this year.

Yes, and so will I. But the signals are tax cuts at the bottom and tax rises at the top/middle. Things like rent controls are being suggested which in Scotland and other countries have been shown to lead to reduced rental supply (unsurprisingly). This direction of travel is not something we should be in favour of if we want growth in the economy.

LuckyHazelFox · 23/07/2026 09:06

Shakeoffyourchains · 23/07/2026 09:04

The British Public: Spend over two years bashing Starmer (yes, it happened even before he became PM) and demanding he resign on an almost a daily basis.

The British Public: acts shocked and appalled when Starmer resigns but immediately start doing the same with the next PM.

We really are an ungovernable bunch of brats.

Non Labour voters owe both Starmer and Burnham nothing, except high taxes.

EasternStandard · 23/07/2026 09:06

cloudtreecarpet · 23/07/2026 09:00

I am sick of hearing about his "boring voice" as a reason for disliking Starmer.

Boris Johnson was a clown and a pretty hopeless PM but he had "charisma" & look how that ended?

Personally I preferred have a proper grown up in charge for once who had already proven himself in another career and had a considered approach to politics.

Many a PM would have leapt into supporting Trump in his idiotic illegal war but Starmer handled that excellently. That's the kind of PM I wanted.

Now we have another type of show man in charge who has wheedled his way to the top in an underhand way & is already throwing ideas out with no substance behind them.
I really hope he isn't going to be the disaster I suspect he might be.

But it’s not why he was disliked, people who did like him cite his boring voice as they can’t connect with the reasons Labour lost so many voters.

VoteForCountBinface · 23/07/2026 09:07

NoisyUmberBalonz I honestly think that's because of the footballification of politics, not his actually record.
It's personality politcs. I liked Starmer. I also liked May and Brown. All of them IMO had integrity but didn't have the populist appeal of the likes of Burnham, Johnson, Farage, and Blair.

It's why people say 'They picked the wrong brother' about the Millibands IMO. I think they don't look deeply into the politics beyond the headlines.

@RoundedRobin , Do you think anyone who becomes PM does so because they want to make things worse?

David Cameron became PM because he fancied the job. His time in charge did an incredible amount of damage to the country.

@EasternStandard , In the recent by-elections, Labour did badly, but the Conservatives did even worse. The party in power tends to not do well in by-elections.

The results in the Scotland and Wales elections are more complicated as there were issues related to the respective nations involved.

ClarkeandNewman · 23/07/2026 09:07

LuckyHazelFox · 23/07/2026 09:05

Of course it's a genuine question. Do you believe in democracy or not? Starmer tried to halt the local elections and look how that turned out. Do you think he should have been responsible for putting the brake on the Green party?

Oh read my posts and stop wasting my time. Ridiculous.

JimBobsWife · 23/07/2026 09:08

ClarkeandNewman · 23/07/2026 08:34

So what would you do about ex offenders? Would you be happy if they were unemployable and perpetually on benefits? What about those politicians who engage in nominally legal forms of bad behaviour - is Sunak and his tax "avoidance" more palatable than Haigh and her decades old phone theft?

There's a huge gulf between 'unemployable and perpetually on benefits' and being the right hand woman of the PM.

greatvisuals · 23/07/2026 09:09

I'm not a fan of the labour stance on Israel or the sucking up to trump, but burnham has been a hard working politician for many years. He has held way more political positions than starmer.

I'd never heard of kier starmer when he stood as prime minister.

LuckyHazelFox · 23/07/2026 09:09

ClarkeandNewman · 23/07/2026 09:07

Oh read my posts and stop wasting my time. Ridiculous.

You're wasting your own time if you're more riled up by Reform than anything else.

Newbutoldfather · 23/07/2026 09:10

@Shakeoffyourchains ,

It’s a poor show to blame the demos in a democracy!

You have to ask why we (and the we is becoming pretty pan European at least) are an ‘ungovernable bunch of brats’.

Politicians need to lead and persuade people of their ideas. That is why Farage is a really effective politician. He has ideas and is able to elucidate them. He also answers questions directly.

We need Farage’s presentation skills attached to a politician with more likeable ideas. I hope Burnham is that person.

(Yes, there are also massive issues with social media which I acknowledge, but politicians need to deal with this too).

Scotiasdarling · 23/07/2026 09:11

concertinacornflake · 23/07/2026 08:49

What you propose is anti-democratic. We have rules on who can stand for election, and that's sufficient.

Beyond that, voters can choose.

Once you start barring anyone with any criminal record, you create the circumstances for a corrupt government to prosecute opponents on trumped up charges to prevent them being elected.

As for 'held to a higher standard' - not prior to political life. Our politicians should be held to high standards in office - but no higher than many other roles anyway.

It absolutely is not anti democratic. Voters can elect whichever criminal they like to represent them in parliament . That's democracy. What is unacceptable is those past criminals being chosen for cabinet jobs over law abiding m.p's. Why should nurses and midwives for example be held to higher standards than those imposing laws on other people?

For once Keir Starmer had it right when he told Boris Johnson that law makers couldn't be law breakers. Did you agree with that then? What made you change?

EasternStandard · 23/07/2026 09:13

VoteForCountBinface · 23/07/2026 09:07

NoisyUmberBalonz I honestly think that's because of the footballification of politics, not his actually record.
It's personality politcs. I liked Starmer. I also liked May and Brown. All of them IMO had integrity but didn't have the populist appeal of the likes of Burnham, Johnson, Farage, and Blair.

It's why people say 'They picked the wrong brother' about the Millibands IMO. I think they don't look deeply into the politics beyond the headlines.

@RoundedRobin , Do you think anyone who becomes PM does so because they want to make things worse?

David Cameron became PM because he fancied the job. His time in charge did an incredible amount of damage to the country.

@EasternStandard , In the recent by-elections, Labour did badly, but the Conservatives did even worse. The party in power tends to not do well in by-elections.

The results in the Scotland and Wales elections are more complicated as there were issues related to the respective nations involved.

I don’t blame the Labour MPs for hearing the results, I assume you mean the local elections not by-elections.

Not only were they bad the feedback on the doorstep was very much Starmer is the problem.

The early bounce for AB shows it has worked for now. The longer term plans and whether they work will be key for him.

Ladyfromthehill · 23/07/2026 09:16

MsMarple · 23/07/2026 00:12

I feel cross with Starmer for rolling over so easily and walking away from the responsibility he was elected to, and then I think the sort of person who would be so spineless shouldn’t be running the country!

It also doesn’t feel right that Burnham should just waltz into power without even a leadership contest… not sure who else I’d want instead though.

I dont think you can do much in his position- when your own allies stab you in the back like if there was no tomorrow. He stood there as long as he could. I think Id be more cross with people who supported him and then jumped ships the moment an opportunity arose.

Hummusfiend · 23/07/2026 09:19

HeddaGarbled · 23/07/2026 00:58

Here we are - did a bit of Googling:

You talk like that is unusual, but about half of British Prime Ministers become PM without winning at a general election to do so. In reverse order:

  • Boris Johnson - appointed PM when Theresa May stepped down
  • Theresa May - appointed PM when David Cameron stepped down
  • David Cameron - became PM after general election
  • Gordon Brown - appointed PM after Tony Blair stepped down
  • Tony Blair - became PM after general election
  • John Major - appointed PM after Margaret Thatcher stepped down
  • Margaret Thatcher - became PM after general election
  • James Callaghan - appointed PM after Harold Wilson stepped down

I think May was the only other one appointed unopposed. Not sure about John Major.

Really interesting to see that list and be reminded of the facts.

Despite the absoluter horror of Truss and Johnson getting in this way, I still also feel a bit discombobulated by Andy Burnham's rise and rise. I wonder if it's becasue he wasn't actually a sitting MP 6 weeks (or so) ago and the whole thing has had to be specifically orchestrated to make this happen? There were rumblings last year and I was cross with him then for the distraction and egoism, but it seemed ridiculous that it might happen.

Also I feel like two years for Starmer with such a massive majority is uncomfortably unfair and largely driven by a severely distorted media narrative and the posturing of career politicians (those who seem just to want to ascend to more power, rather than actually to do the hard graft). It was such a relief to have a bit more stability after the previous chaos, and yet here we are again.

And then there is the sad fact that for whatever reasons I just don't find Burnham particularly convincing as a leader. The whole thing is exhausting and perpetually in flux.

Gloriia · 23/07/2026 09:19

Shakeoffyourchains · 23/07/2026 09:04

The British Public: Spend over two years bashing Starmer (yes, it happened even before he became PM) and demanding he resign on an almost a daily basis.

The British Public: acts shocked and appalled when Starmer resigns but immediately start doing the same with the next PM.

We really are an ungovernable bunch of brats.

Havent you ever heard the phrase a happy medium? Surely there was one between a terrified looking starmer and council boss Burnham?

RedRiverShore6 · 23/07/2026 09:21

If there had been even a small leadership contest it wouldn’t have been as bad

JimBobsWife · 23/07/2026 09:21

Gloriia · 23/07/2026 09:19

Havent you ever heard the phrase a happy medium? Surely there was one between a terrified looking starmer and council boss Burnham?

We may be brats but it's the sitting MPs you need to hold responsible. They were worried about keeping their seats. If Burnham turns out not to be their new messiah and their seats are in jeopardy, they'll turn on him too. All this 'good of the country' stuff is bollocks.

ETA: that was meant to be in reply to @Shakeoffyourchains

Gloriia · 23/07/2026 09:23

RedRiverShore6 · 23/07/2026 09:21

If there had been even a small leadership contest it wouldn’t have been as bad

Exactly. Stage a leadership contest like they staged the by election. At least pretend that he hasn't just waltzed into number 10 thanks to his pals coup.

GCAcademic · 23/07/2026 09:23

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 23/07/2026 08:32

Maybe because the media understand the way in which our parliamentary democracy works while many of the public don't?

I think one can understand the technicalities of how our parliamentary democracy works and recognise it is a limited democracy, and that Burnham has taken advantage of its limitations.

It sets a terrifying precedent. What happens when Reform are in government and, through the same system that Burnhan has taken advantage off, catapault someone far, far worse than sitting PM Farage to power, while their MPs just let it happen?

AgentPidge · 23/07/2026 09:24

Shakeoffyourchains · 23/07/2026 09:04

The British Public: Spend over two years bashing Starmer (yes, it happened even before he became PM) and demanding he resign on an almost a daily basis.

The British Public: acts shocked and appalled when Starmer resigns but immediately start doing the same with the next PM.

We really are an ungovernable bunch of brats.

I saw no evidence ( from MN discussions) that The British Public wanted KS gone. They wanted him to be left in peace to do his job. It was the media, and us being told what we wanted. Overall, it was the party thinking that they needed a strong personality to win the next election for them. Which is crazy, because KS had won the last one. And when you're in government, your job is to get on with governing, not looking to ensure your success in some future election.

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