Relatively new boyfriend. We were having sex last night and his phone went off and afterwards he saw it was his best mate. In front of me (as in showing me the message as he wrote it) he sent him ‘you put me off as I was pounding away 😂’. I challenged the language to which his defence was that it was a message to his best mate and he obviously wouldn’t talk like that to anyone else. Is it me or is that disrespectful?