I'm not being unsympathetic
Theres a lady on the news at the moment, saying how times are tough and shes only cooking one meal a week - imagine she's eating cold food.
One thing that stood out though "I own my own house and it costs in maintenance" Depending on where she is, would you not get a life time mortgage or sell and rent? She has a big asset, why not use it to have a better life? I know I would.
She may be holding on to it for inheritance, but she didn't say - if so, then can her family help. It just seems totally crazy