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AIBU to think aphantasia is not rare?

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Sunninginthecorner · Yesterday 07:29

I was doomscrolling insta and a video came up about aphantasia.

Rather than explain what it is badly I found this:

Aphantasia is a condition in which people do not visualize, or see, images in their minds. This rare way of processing information and recalling memories affects about four percent of people. Close your eyes and imagine a fluffy cat. What color is the cat? What is the cat doing? When asked such questions, many people will conjure up a lifelike visual image. But others do not. People with aphantasia know they are thinking of a cat. They can even describe what a cat generally looks like. But they do so without “seeing” a cat in their mind. Instead of using their ‘mind’s eye,’ someone with aphantasia may think using words, numbers or ideas.

Brain scans show that people with aphantasia respond differently to sounds than people who use mental images.

I can’t see images and my very small poll IRL hasn’t found anyone who does see images.

IABU - you can see in images and it is rare
IANBU - you can’t see images and can’t believe it’s that rare

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Genevieva · Yesterday 09:19

Seaside3 · Yesterday 09:18

No. I know exactly what he looks like, but i can't picture him. It's hard to describe.

Faces are quite complex. What about a shiny red apple sitting on a chopping board?

Strawberrryfields · Yesterday 09:20

YoQuieroVino · Yesterday 08:54

I have it and I’m a massive reader. As a child I’d read almost constantly (I don’t have as much time now sadly, although I still read 1-2 books a week and don’t watch TV at all). I don’t feel like the lack of imagery affects my reading enjoyment TBH.

That’s good glad you still enjoy it. I suppose it’s just hard to imagine either way as people will only ever know their own experience.

Selfseedpoppies · Yesterday 09:20

I don't think I see pictures in my head. I do dream and can remember scenarios and people. I also don't hear words in my head when I read (I think this is why I read so much quicker than my husband and why listening to an audio book would infuriate me as it's so slow!) I just read with my eyes and understand the meaning.

PeachBlossom1234 · Yesterday 09:20

I don't see images, also I never have dreams - always wondered if they're connected

Seaside3 · Yesterday 09:21

Genevieva · Yesterday 09:19

Faces are quite complex. What about a shiny red apple sitting on a chopping board?

Again, I know what it looks like because I've seen it. But no, I don't picture it.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · Yesterday 09:21

Iknowthatfeeling · Yesterday 09:02

I would pay money not to see images every time I close my eyes, even for 10 seconds. I do have really good recall of visual memory so you are probably on to something there, although as I've got older the visuals have got more intense, clear and quick but my memory has got less sharp? So my personal experience is counter to that. I'm only mid 30s so not general aging memory loss.

I'm the opposite and would pay money TO see images again. It's funny how people want the opposite 🤣

"You don't know what you've got until it's gone", as the saying goes...😞🤣

Hoardasurass · Yesterday 09:23

Palomiino · Yesterday 08:35

Really? I always assumed that the lack of imagination that autistic people can have linked the two. There are various autistic presentations though and you can have more of one and less of another.

I would push back on the idea that there is research that fully represents a statistic like this, though, simply because there are so many undiagnosed autistic people who assume they are NT.

Having said that, though, two of my autistic children have much better imaginations than I do.

There's a physical test for aphantasia that involves recording eye movement when asking people to picture things in their minds and a large body of research coming out about it if you're interested in research papers.
They have tested people with diagnosed asd and those who have specifically proven not to and the % who had aphantasia was the same in both groups.
The assumption that the two were linked is/was quite common hence the experiments to prove/disprove the link and surprisingly enough there's no link, which i have both but my asd stepdaughter has hyperphantasia, she can even smell words (no i don't know what she means but apparently words have individual smells)

Userexcuser · Yesterday 09:23

That's me! Can't see anything in my mind, annoyingly I really like yoga but the meditation bit at the end is just wasted on me. "Imagine a beautiful place, see the clouds moving, see the ocean". Nope, just can't do it.

TellingBone · Yesterday 09:25

Those who don't 'see' images - if you were asked to draw, say, a banana; where would that image come from?

SixtySomething · Yesterday 09:29

EBearhug · Yesterday 07:43

I'd say 4% is quite rare. I'm the other end of the scale, hyperphantasic. I would assume most people are more in the middle - they have images, but not necessarily clear ones. These things are usually on a bell-curve across a population.

So what's a hyperphantasicand what does it feell ike to be one?

Speakeasier · Yesterday 09:29

godmum56 · Yesterday 09:13

I can't do Brad Pitt because I am not "interested" in Brad Pitt. I can do friends and family members, even those who died many years ago.

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Isn’t it fascinating how people are so different?

Portmore · Yesterday 09:29

Most people 'hear a voice' or inner monologue as they think. Some people don't - alot of autistic people - people deaf from birth, non verbal etc

It is thought of as the norm, I grew up not having a clue what 'the voice in your head' meant.

I realized as an adult that I'm just in a minority that thinks differently. It's not even that unusual more like a left handed, right handed thing

SusanSharon · Yesterday 09:29

TellingBone · Yesterday 09:25

Those who don't 'see' images - if you were asked to draw, say, a banana; where would that image come from?

I know what a banana looks like, so I could draw something that looks like a banana. What I couldn’t do is draw a specific banana, so the exact shape, the markings etc.

BillieWiper · Yesterday 09:31

I don't see the images with my eyes no, because they're not there. I conjur up the image in my brain and my brain remembers what a fluffy cat looks like so it produces a generic 'image' in my memory. But it's not visual. And it's not a very sharp image. Like it doesn't 'look' like any specific cat that I've ever seen before. Just a feeling that you're thinking of a cat.

I don't really understand to be honest. Whether I've got that thing or not?

dizzydizzydizzy · Yesterday 09:31

Palomiino · Yesterday 07:38

I have aphantasia and I’m autistic. I think it’s linked.

Yes they are linked I came on to say the same thing,

i also really struggle to visualise maps even though I am very well travelled. This inability to visualise where things are in relation to each other is related to aphantasia. It is possible to have one without the other though.

I play this online game, which helps a little and is fun: https://travle.earth/

travle

Travle: A daily game, get between countries in as few guesses as possible!

https://travle.earth/

MargaretMeldrew · Yesterday 09:32

If I’m asked to picture something in my head, I get a flicker of what it is. Like a snapshot. But it’s fleeting and unclear, especially if I’m supposed to add detail. I don’t have aphantasia, just terrible concentration. If I try to imagine myself on a beach, I might get the blue sky and the clouds, but once I move onto the warm yellow sand, that sky is gone🤣🤣

Seaside3 · Yesterday 09:32

SusanSharon · Yesterday 09:29

I know what a banana looks like, so I could draw something that looks like a banana. What I couldn’t do is draw a specific banana, so the exact shape, the markings etc.

Exactly. We aren't walking around with no knowledge of what the world looks like! Our memories just work in a different way.

hodgepodge21 · Yesterday 09:33

Charlatanfreethesedays · Yesterday 09:10

I have aphantasia. I was so surprised when I found out other people could see things visually in their mind.

I thought things like counting sheep were a metaphor, I didn't have any idea that people actually saw sheep!

I can imagine things with form and movement without seeing them though. It's really hard to explain. If I think of an apple, I can think of the shape and concept of an apple without actually seeing one. If I think of someone walking I can imagine their gait, but I can't see a person.

I can't bring up faces in my mind, not even my parents not my children, and that makes me sad.

I sometimes do get very fleeting images but they are just little snatches and I have no real control over them, they feel just out of reach, I can't focus on them.

I understand now why - although I used to be an avid reader pre-kids, I found long descriptive passages boring. I guess if you have inner images it's painting a scene in your mind, where as too much description of the scene leaves me wanting to get back to the characters and the plot.

I do dream in images, however.

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I have aphantasia too and you’ve perfectly explained how I can perceive form and movement but not visualise it. Like with the counting sheep analogy I can conceptualise sort of blobs moving and leaping over a fence but I can’t see a fence or sheep! Same with imagining a person walking it’s like I can sense the movement of their legs but not “see” it.

It’s like if I visualise a route I often walk, I’m not seeing it. But I can’t sort of “move” in my mind or follow a specific set of directions. It’s really hard to explain!

Speakeasier · Yesterday 09:34

Seaside3 · Yesterday 09:16

Glad I'm not the only one!

For all those asking if our brains are quiet - if only! Might even ia non stop from the moment I wake up. Going through the days jobs, taks that I have to do, planning ahead etc. I'm good at coming up with a million ideas. I guess much like anyone else, my brain is full, just not of pictures. It's more like a "to do" list. Constantly.

I have the task list too. The only time it goes quiet is when I’m away from home. It’s like my brain says ‘oh you can’t get any tasks done now’ and then it switches off that bit. I’ve started going away for a couple of days when I’m feeling stressed as it gives my brain a rest!

Charlatanfreethesedays · Yesterday 09:37

Additup · Yesterday 09:15

Yes, I believe these 2 things are linked.
My daughter has aphantasia. She is also dyslexic and I do wonder if there is a link there as well.

There is aphantasia research at uni of Exeter I think.

Out of interest do you enjoy reading if you cant visualise people and places in your minds eye?

Yes, I love reading.

It's hard to explain as many people who see images thing those images are the same thing as imagination. But you can have a vivid imagination without images. (Realising even the word vivid relates to images!) Images are just one aspect of imagination.

As a child for example, my friend and I used to create imaginary worlds together, and I absolutely loved that and other imaginary games and I've always loved reading. I still feel transported to another world even if I can't see it. It's hard to explain.

likeitshard · Yesterday 09:37

Speakeasier · Yesterday 09:34

I have the task list too. The only time it goes quiet is when I’m away from home. It’s like my brain says ‘oh you can’t get any tasks done now’ and then it switches off that bit. I’ve started going away for a couple of days when I’m feeling stressed as it gives my brain a rest!

Yes exactly this!

SpreadsheetLife · Yesterday 09:40

I see images in my mind. However, I can't imagine a face I've not see before. For example, if I'm reading a book, the character's face will be blurry unless the book had been turned into a film/series and I can imagine the actor.

Seaside3 · Yesterday 09:41

Speakeasier · Yesterday 09:34

I have the task list too. The only time it goes quiet is when I’m away from home. It’s like my brain says ‘oh you can’t get any tasks done now’ and then it switches off that bit. I’ve started going away for a couple of days when I’m feeling stressed as it gives my brain a rest!

Mine just switches gear/subject when away. But I suspect I'm adhd and it's how I process/cope with life in general.

Amsylou · Yesterday 09:41

I have never realised this, but I actually can’t visualise a cat 😂. I know it’s white but I can’t see a white cat. I wonder if a lot people have this but don’t realise. I’m sure the rate for ASD is similar too, but I am also sure it’s more common than stats show. Possibly the same here.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · Yesterday 09:46

Sunninginthecorner · Yesterday 07:37

Wow I didn’t realise that it was a thing to see images.
I struggle to recognise people’s faces do you think the two are linked? By not retaining an image in my mind means I don’t recall what people look like.

I'm was in your position a few years ago. Someone made a comment and I suddenly realised that the whole "seeing something in your minds eye" wasn't just a metaphor, and that everyone else had this superpower that I just didn't have.

I struggle a lot with faces as well. I once had a long conversation with someone, trying desperately to work out who they were. Eventually decided it must be some friend of my brothers. I walk off with DD afterwards, hoping to god I've managed to disguise the fact that I didn't recognise this person, and ask DD if she knew who it was. She looked at me like I was utterly stupid and just says "It's Dan. Your stepbrother Dan"

Oops!

DP also used to give me a lot of grief because I wouldn't notice if she'd had a haircut, because I didn't have a mental picture of what she looked like when I last saw her to compare her to.

There are advantages to aphantasia though. We tend to be very fast readers, because we're not picturing what we're reading. Also, it's a lot harder for us to get PTSD after a traumatic experience, because we can't relive the experience in the same way that others can.

Theres a good experiment I do with people to see whereabouts on the spectrum of aphantasic to hyperphantasic they are.

I say "Theres a ball on a table. Someone pushes the ball, and it rolls off the table onto the floor"

Then I'll ask some questions about it.

"What colours the ball"
"Whats the table made of"
"What sex is the person"
"Does the ball bounce"

Hyperphantasic people will generally instantly have the answer, because they already added those details when imagining the scenario. Someone in the middle of the scale will take a second or two to answer, as they go in and reimagine and backfill those details. Whereas properly aphantasic people will probably just give an annoyed "Fuck knows!"

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