I'm 18 and live with my father. Anyways, I want to dress modestly because of personal beliefs but my dad thinks that I should wear shorts in the hot weather. I told him that my pants are made of a non-hot material and they don't get hot. They also keep away the mosquitos and the UV rays, and they stop my legs from getting scratched from spiky plants that exist outside. I don't think that my dad believes me and he seems concerned about the heat as well as the possibility that my modesty is not mentally healthy. He says that we live in a free country and we don't have to dress that way here.
He says that my unwillingness to wear shorts in hot weather could be anxiety and I have to challenge the belief that I have to cover skin. He also seems to believe that my pants are hot because they “look hot”.
I'm 18, so I know that my brain is not fully developed and I don't fully know what is logical. I made a guess that most people on this website are probably over 18, so they probably could give a second opinion.
Should I make a compromise and maybe buy pants that “look not hot”? Although I would have to wait until he has the time to drive me to the store. Maybe he is right and maybe I don't know what is hot and what is not. I am not “sympathy farming” and I don't seek attention. I will delete this tomorrow. I just want advice and that's it.