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To ask for your 40th Birthday gift ideas?

20 replies

1986Massive · 19/07/2026 13:49

I'm 40 in a month!

I'm already getting some bouji sunglasses, a trip to paris and something related to my hobby. But family are asking for gift ideas.

Tell me your <£100 gifts that made you happy!

Things I like:
books
arty things (often ask for art prints e.g yayoi kusama, david hockney)
chocolate
perfume
german culture and speaking german

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CypressMoon · 19/07/2026 13:53

beautiful lamps
big houseplants in pots
big pots for the garden
jewellery
gorgeous notebooks
silk bloue or PJs
cashmere socks

ChiefCookandBottlewasher7 · 19/07/2026 14:05

Fischer-Dieskau CD and a book of Dichterliebe texts, to follow when listening. Bostridge's CD of Dichterliebe, to appreciate Fischer-Dieskau more.

A CD of Natalie Schutzmann, 'Vier ernste Gesaenge' without a book (more difficult to get) but with a printout of the texts from the Internet to sing along to.

FunPreventionOfficer · 19/07/2026 14:17

A life size cardboard cutout of Christoph Waltz.

FlamingJune2026 · 19/07/2026 14:29

We were given a Velvitiser for Christmas and have used it more than I expected.

Darragon · 19/07/2026 14:35

Subscriptions to things I’d actually enjoy using, e.g. Mumsnet premium, The Times, Ideal Home Magazine, Spotify or Adobe Creative Cloud. Some cost more than others.

Posh coffee. I’ve always wanted to try the Fortnum and Mason Piccadilly blend.

A nice organic red wine like a Cabernet Sauvignon.

Elemis Pro Collagen Marine Cream. I love it but sooooo expensive I only get it at birthdays or Christmases.

Twattergy · 19/07/2026 14:37

Anything from Space NK, esp body creams, posh bath stuff, high end make up.

Moonnstarz · 19/07/2026 14:48

FlamingJune2026 · 19/07/2026 14:29

We were given a Velvitiser for Christmas and have used it more than I expected.

I agree on this! Love mine in the winter.

For me I would love a monthly subscription to Amazon unlimited.

If you like flowers a monthly delivery would also be nice.

Is there a local chocolatier near you as a voucher for a shop would be better than some of the big names like hotel Chocolat which aren't as tasty as you think they would be.

I also like soft toys so a Jellycat to add to the collection would be a win for me.

Also if you have a few people contributing then dr marten boots was on my birthday list.

Oh and Lego. There are some good adult sets now (not just flowers).

I think reading back my list I am a big kid though!

luckylavender · 19/07/2026 14:58

What are ‘bouji’ sunglasses?

luckylavender · 19/07/2026 15:01

I like books, notebooks, lovely pens, perfume, jewellery, scarves, candles. So many things

Thatfattrollop · 19/07/2026 15:14

A rose or fruit tree for the garden. Garden furniture/swing.

bestbefore · 19/07/2026 15:19

nice overnight bag for your trip?

Left · 19/07/2026 15:29

A perfume making experience.

A weekend away in the hotel that’s in a library (Gladstone’s Library nr Chester)

Kirschcherries · 19/07/2026 16:44

I know this isn’t everyone’s taste but I had a Pandora bracelet and asked everyone to buy me charms. This way I had a piece of jewellery with lasting memories from the people I love.

AliTheMinx · 19/07/2026 16:58

An afternoon tea voucher or a theatre/show ticket - so you can have a nice memorable experience x

BreakfastFeast · 19/07/2026 17:26

Suggest a night out

Comedy night
Music
Theatre
Festival

IAmTheStreets · 20/07/2026 07:38

My first thought was experiences. Tickets to show(s), art or dancing classes, maybe a short trip somewhere nearby that is also nice and new to me.

Think of your hobbies and interests, maybe there is something you'd like to try or take to another level. My friend got a full genealogy research for her 35th birthday as she's very much into the whole thing.

Tech stuff like good headphones or something for your home like an air humidifier, a good photo album for family pictures subscriptions to house organizing apps and programs like this one for interior design or this one for garden planning, etc.

Could also be something more or less practical that you wouldn't buy on the oridnary day, like upgraded versions of what you already have and enjoy like perfume, skincare, clothes, etc.

Alwaystired23 · 20/07/2026 08:35

Some ideas from what I had for my 40th:
Egg chair for the garden
Pac man lego
Clogau gold necklace
Bag with initials matching purse
New phone
Expensive jigsaw I have completed and framed

Bjorkdidit · 20/07/2026 08:37

My latest 'want although don't really need' is a Marshall bluetooth speaker, so I don't need to keep borrowing the one that DP uses when he's pottering in the garage:

Bluetooth speakers for mighty sound | Marshall.com

The smallest one, which I'm sure will be fine for household use, is on offer for £89.

My other indulgence is Lego - flowers and the monument type stuff, eg the Trevi Fountain.

Bluetooth speakers for mighty sound | Marshall.com

Make any room come alive or take the party with you with Marshall Bluetooth speakers. Just pair and play to experience hours of endless music.

https://www.marshall.com/gb/en/speakers?utm_campaign=UK%20%7C%20Brand%20%7C%20Speakers%20%26%20Headphones%20%7C%20Search&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21339682268&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIs9-i797glQMVgpxQBh1ZRCWfEAAYASAAEgIpMvD_BwE

FlamingJune2026 · 22/07/2026 20:37

Im buying myself a lovely Turkish towel for the beach.

reluctantbrit · 22/07/2026 21:01

Two beautiful wine glasses
A Steiff Teddy (I got one for my 30th, 40th and then 50th)

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