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To think that Naked Attraction, for all it's supposed emphasis on diversity and body positivity...

41 replies

forceofhabitandnotneed · 19/07/2026 11:09

Never really featured contestants who were significantly overweight or obese?

I mean, they seemed to love all the smugly polyamorous twenty somethings, but as for fatties - no dice!

I caught an episode the other night which featured a woman who said she like dad bods, but none of the blokes were much above average weight.

(As an aside, she cringingly went on about a man with "cake around his tum tum". Jeez, speaking as a fat bloke I'd rather be despised than patronised!)

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Lugol · 19/07/2026 12:48

It's not an exercise in diversity nor body positivity, it's the absolute opposite.

It's reducing somebody to the sum total of their exposed body parts.

Like what the world really needs is more gratuitous nudity in a world where only 60% of British adults are considered sexually active and celibacy (and impotence) is rife in young people.

OtterlyAstounding · 19/07/2026 12:48

The entire thing seems plain gross from the curious squiz I had at it, back when it was first airing, and the glimpses here and there when changing the channel. Just all exhibitionists and attention seekers, who are clearly allergic to any pubic hair whatsoever (unless it's waxed into an unnatural shape).

I'm surprised it's still going, but I suppose it's a good way for people to advertise on (inter)national telly that they're up for pretty much anything!

ColdAsAWitches · 19/07/2026 12:48

Absolutely there have been obese people on it. I've seen every size from anorexic thin to dangerously overweight.

Chucklebunnie · 19/07/2026 12:50

Cheesecheeks · 19/07/2026 11:17

Been a while since I’ve seen it, I think I’ve seen several overweight people but not obese. Just thinking how ‘I’ve been on naked attraction’ would make a fabulous AMA, I am very curious what would make someone do this, and how much they are told to say certain things etc. If anyone is reading!!

One of my daughter’s friends went on it. I was fascinated by the mentality at the time and watched several episodes.
My daughter has always been very comfortable getting naked with her friends but she said she would never go on the show.

sirensinger · 19/07/2026 12:51

EmpressaurusKitty · 19/07/2026 12:27

What kind of mind wants their neighbours, their work colleagues and their extended family all to see them naked?

If you were in a 'professional' occupation it would scupper your career good and proper!

SwanRivers · 19/07/2026 12:52

EducatingEater · 19/07/2026 12:38

Could you imagine just popping to the paper shop and catching up with a neighbour knowing they've seen you completely stark bollock naked the night before on TV? And not only that, your entire family and friends have too?

I honestly don't get the mindset where anyone would want to go on that show!

And doing the school run with your DC or grandchildren.

Weird, pervy exhibitionists.

MyDarlingRose · 19/07/2026 12:53

I think they rightly know that those people would be horribly abused after appearing on the show. People are really nasty about larger bodies. They’d probably get death threats.

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 19/07/2026 12:54

I've seen many overweight people on NA

SwanRivers · 19/07/2026 12:55

MyDarlingRose · 19/07/2026 12:53

I think they rightly know that those people would be horribly abused after appearing on the show. People are really nasty about larger bodies. They’d probably get death threats.

What do you mean by 'those' people?

If you're talking about overweight and obese people, you'll see by reading the thread that there are absolutely loads of them on the show?

Moveoverdarlin · 19/07/2026 12:56

Bloody hell! I think they’re ALL overweight. It’s very rare you get a slim, toned woman.

I’m amazed how many women in their 20s go on there who are really overweight. All have wobbly tummies, most have tattoos, a large number have their nipples pierced, most have bald Fannie’s and some have rashes around their bikini lines from shaving or bruises and rashes. It definitely shows the human body in its most raw form. Turn over to Love Island and they’re all gorgeous.

I enjoy watching it as it makes me feel better about myself!

Moveoverdarlin · 19/07/2026 13:01

HoskinsChoice · 19/07/2026 12:41

I would say it's the absolute reverse of what you've just said. I am below average weight but above where most of us would like to be. Whenever I watch it, it always amazes me how people fatter than me have the guts to go on it.

That’s exactly what I think! I would say the vast majority of contestants are overweight. I always say to my DH ‘We look better than them and we’re 20 years older’.

MaturingCheeseball · 19/07/2026 13:11

They all look like what I imagine the queue at an std clinic consists of. I wouldn’t want to sit on any of their sofas. All unsavoury swingers.

MyDarlingRose · 19/07/2026 13:11

SwanRivers · 19/07/2026 12:55

What do you mean by 'those' people?

If you're talking about overweight and obese people, you'll see by reading the thread that there are absolutely loads of them on the show?

Those people as in the people the OP is referring to. Why take offence to perfectly normal English? ‘Those’ as in the people being discussed…

Good to know they’ve been OK. The obese women I’ve spoken to who put themselves out there are influencers are inundated by vile comments and messages. So I assumed contestants would get the same.

SwanRivers · 19/07/2026 13:14

MyDarlingRose · 19/07/2026 13:11

Those people as in the people the OP is referring to. Why take offence to perfectly normal English? ‘Those’ as in the people being discussed…

Good to know they’ve been OK. The obese women I’ve spoken to who put themselves out there are influencers are inundated by vile comments and messages. So I assumed contestants would get the same.

Calm down, no-one's taking offence at your language lol.

I just needed to check as it didn't make sense in context, as the thread is rammed full of people saying there are overweight and obese people on the show.

I think they rightly know that those people would be horribly abused after appearing on the show. People are really nasty about larger bodies. They’d probably get death threats.

It only makes sense now that I've realised you didn't read the thread before posting.

JacknDiane · 19/07/2026 13:21

EmpressaurusKitty · 19/07/2026 12:27

What kind of mind wants their neighbours, their work colleagues and their extended family all to see them naked?

Feckin weirdos, thats who.

JHound · 19/07/2026 13:26

I have seen fat people on it. They never get picked though.

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