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AIBU to object to balloon and lantern memorial releases for environmental reasons ?

419 replies

Ihsk · 14/07/2026 13:03

I do wish people would stop releasing balloons in tribute to lost loved ones.

Balloons don’t up to heaven. They travel a few miles and usually land in a farmer’s field. Where animals eat the balloon and get very ill or die.

This method is a cruel and other creatures can die.

Also still can get Chinese lanterns online. Anyone setting these off now are idiots. Forest fires

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Tulipsriver · 14/07/2026 16:42

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:13

I don’t care that you object. In fact it makes me want to do more of them.

We do a balloon release on every special occasion throughout the year (birthdays, the day they died, Christmas, Halloween, summer festival etc) so our family member is always with us.

I certainly won’t be stopping.

What are you looking for here? Someone to say well done for not caring about the environment?

omghereistrouble · 14/07/2026 16:51

Pound shops full of those stupid lanterns. Its not only funerals I have heard of them being let off at weddings as well. I think they are Chinese but whatever they are dangerous and cheap rubbish.
The balloons are just as bad but they certainly are not that cheap by the time they are inflated as well.
I agree with petals they use them at weddings instead of confetti. I suppose people like things to float so perhaps bubbles instead though I am not keen on those.
Please do not use doves either a lot die when let out at weddings through shock its a horrible custom

SockPlant · 14/07/2026 16:53

Nsky62 · 14/07/2026 13:04

We need good alternatives, there aren’t.

The apes in my local zoo would love a word with you. They can't though - they died when some brain dead fucker let Chinese lanterns off.

What on earth is wrong with you?

SockPlant · 14/07/2026 16:55

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:13

I don’t care that you object. In fact it makes me want to do more of them.

We do a balloon release on every special occasion throughout the year (birthdays, the day they died, Christmas, Halloween, summer festival etc) so our family member is always with us.

I certainly won’t be stopping.

Someone needs to stop you. This is hideous.

"Let's kill wildlife to remember a dead person" is utterly vile

SockPlant · 14/07/2026 16:58

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 13:27

this makes me so uncomfortable. I can’t see how people can bang on about bereaved people releasing balloons without recognising they sound like massive cunts.

People who say they release balloons sound like even more massive cunts tho. I'll risk the reputational damage

Greenand · 14/07/2026 17:07

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 14:27

Report away. Balloon releases are legal 😊

But let's hope that's not for much longer. We are drowning in a sea of litter in the UK and balloons and lanterns are adding to it. The balloons land on the ground in a different place from where they were launched but that doesn't make them any less littering.

Just suppose for a moment that all your released balloons by coincidence came down in your own garden. Would you just leave them there or would you pick them up? What if your dog tried to eat one and choked on it? Would you care then?

It seems to me that you don't care at the moment because you're not directly affected by the aftermath. So, as far as you're concerned, it's OK if all the litter lands on somebody else's land and it's OK if somebody else's animal, or a wild animal, is injured or dies.

You feel your own losses and wish to commemorate them, but you care nothing for the losses of other people or of innocent animals. Don't let your own grief blind you to the needs of others. I hope in time that you will be more able to look out at the world beyond yourself and understand it more.

Crocsarentslippers · 14/07/2026 17:13

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:13

I don’t care that you object. In fact it makes me want to do more of them.

We do a balloon release on every special occasion throughout the year (birthdays, the day they died, Christmas, Halloween, summer festival etc) so our family member is always with us.

I certainly won’t be stopping.

How staggeringly selfish and ignorant.

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 17:28

Bollihobs · 14/07/2026 16:21

You're the "I don't recycle anything" poster from yesterday's cake thread.

Being environmentally conscious just isn't your thing is it.

No, it isn’t. I have no interest in being inconvenienced.

Happyjoe · 14/07/2026 17:31

Yeah, this, the millions of bit of litter people drop every day, reindeer food at Xmas, just all of it. All tat in the environment. There's loads of alternatives that are just fine. Don't need balloons or lanterns for memorial, we didn't have them 50 years ago and did just fine remembering our loved ones.

Local church up the road used to hold a yearly memorial service with the local undertakers with fireworks. Man, that was loud. They stopped a few years ago because of animal care and littering, thankfully.

BackToLurk · 14/07/2026 17:35

RampantIvy · 14/07/2026 16:14

It isn't going to bring them back.

Until one floats down on one of the balloons. Then who’ll have the last laugh?

closureatlast · 14/07/2026 17:40

They are shit. If someone had planned something like this when ds died, I would have been appalled

grumpygrape · 14/07/2026 17:41

Greenand · 14/07/2026 17:07

But let's hope that's not for much longer. We are drowning in a sea of litter in the UK and balloons and lanterns are adding to it. The balloons land on the ground in a different place from where they were launched but that doesn't make them any less littering.

Just suppose for a moment that all your released balloons by coincidence came down in your own garden. Would you just leave them there or would you pick them up? What if your dog tried to eat one and choked on it? Would you care then?

It seems to me that you don't care at the moment because you're not directly affected by the aftermath. So, as far as you're concerned, it's OK if all the litter lands on somebody else's land and it's OK if somebody else's animal, or a wild animal, is injured or dies.

You feel your own losses and wish to commemorate them, but you care nothing for the losses of other people or of innocent animals. Don't let your own grief blind you to the needs of others. I hope in time that you will be more able to look out at the world beyond yourself and understand it more.

I applaud your attempt but I don't think you'll succeed.

APC303 · 14/07/2026 17:46

Ihsk · 14/07/2026 13:03

I do wish people would stop releasing balloons in tribute to lost loved ones.

Balloons don’t up to heaven. They travel a few miles and usually land in a farmer’s field. Where animals eat the balloon and get very ill or die.

This method is a cruel and other creatures can die.

Also still can get Chinese lanterns online. Anyone setting these off now are idiots. Forest fires

Regardless of the reason behind doing it, it's absolute trash behaviour which is no better than lobbing a KFC box out the window of a car because you're sad.

Yesterdayoho · 14/07/2026 17:49

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:21

They are with us in our thoughts and memories.

That is my priority. I do not care about “the environment”.

Back under your balloon bridge troll

Ihsk · 14/07/2026 18:32

somanychristmaslights · 14/07/2026 13:16

Your family member isn’t with you though. What do you think actually happens, the balloon floats up to the sky and then what??

Exactly

The deceased are not going to see it.

To anyone who posted on here saying it’s fine/going to carry on with releasing balloons.Your attitude disgusts me.

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olivepicanto · 14/07/2026 18:32

wheresmeaircon · 14/07/2026 15:46

@Jumbareeare you ok? Ive never released balloons but I think I would be hypercritical to judge others. Do you know how much wildlife is killed by cats, cars & aeroplanes? All of which I use/have.

Hmmm. I always judge litter louts

Yellowpapersun · 14/07/2026 18:38

BagaChips · 14/07/2026 13:25

Given some of the other posts from the person who says they love doing this, I can only assume they're a rage bait poster

Yes, she is. Amongst other delightful posts today, she's accused someone who bought a tub of ice cream of daily bingeing and stuck the knife into a desperate-sounding widowed dad of very young children. She is a very, very sad and angry person

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 14/07/2026 19:24

I have reported her, @Yellowpapersun. I think MN should ban her.

Anarchy99 · 14/07/2026 19:29

SockPlant · 14/07/2026 16:58

People who say they release balloons sound like even more massive cunts tho. I'll risk the reputational damage

Absolutely. I figure either the loved one would be ashamed or they were as bad as their family and friends who deem it reasonable to do shit like this

ExtraOnions · 14/07/2026 19:40

Do Balloon release people think the balloons make someone less dead?

Just glad that clown from Dovestone has been remanded in custody .. and has plenty of time for self-reflection during her prison sentence.

The one that drown was launching himself into the reservoir on an air-bed, his performative (all posted on social media of course) friends have now done untold damage to the Moors, the wildlife, and cost millions

pricks

FudgeFudy · 14/07/2026 19:46

Being kind, no matter what weak-minded mawkish drivel you dress it up with it's just littering, and people who litter are morons.

LetThemEatCarrotCake · 14/07/2026 19:49

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:13

I don’t care that you object. In fact it makes me want to do more of them.

We do a balloon release on every special occasion throughout the year (birthdays, the day they died, Christmas, Halloween, summer festival etc) so our family member is always with us.

I certainly won’t be stopping.

You take a rotting decaying corpse with you when you release your balloons? Can’t imagine the smell would be nice.

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 14/07/2026 19:54

Let's set off naked flames into the sky
Where they end up nobody knows
What a stupid thing to do in the first place
Performative shite for SM..oh look how much we care..spare me🤮🤮

Yellowpapersun · 14/07/2026 20:34

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 14/07/2026 19:24

I have reported her, @Yellowpapersun. I think MN should ban her.

I have too and I agree, she is ridiculous and needs to be banned.

RampantIvy · 14/07/2026 20:42

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 17:28

No, it isn’t. I have no interest in being inconvenienced.

Are you just being deliberately goady or are you really monumentally thick and selfish and unable to think critically?