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Am I being unreasonable to think extreme day trips are excessive?

164 replies

SonnyHoney · 12/07/2026 21:20

For instance, London Luton to Venice.
How can anyone enjoy leaving their house at 2 a.m. to fly out ridiculously early, spend a few hours somewhere walking around exhausted, and then fly back the same day?
It feels like people are just trying to collect places these days, rather than visiting somewhere because it's somewhere they've aways wanted to go.

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concertinacornflake · 13/07/2026 11:34

Why would it be excessive for people who choose to do it? Why does it matter to you?

The environmental impact of choices like this are shared, so each person is entitled to have a view.

concertinacornflake · 13/07/2026 11:54

tilypu · 13/07/2026 07:05

I don't own a car. Which means that my carbon emissions are less than about 80% of UK households without taking anything else into account.

According to Google, it would take about 18 or 19 European return flights per year to equal the carbon emissions of having as car.

If I take into account my commute by public transport to work, it comes up with a figure of 10-14 return flights per year.

My next planned short trip is an overnighter (accommodation is reasonably priced there). But I'm contemplating squeezing a day trip in before then.

If I do, that will be three return flights this year.

I can live with that.

Yes individual context is important.
10k car miles + x flights + high non-travel consumption is different to
No car miles + 3 return flights + low non-travel consumption

There used to be more discussion about individual and comparative carbon footprints, this can be useful for assessing own usage.

Girasoli · 13/07/2026 13:23

It wouldn't be for me, I don't enjoy airports/flying so it would ruin the enjoyment of the day.

Plus for environmental reasons I try not to fly when there's a practical way of getting where I want to go by ferry/train/coach (though I do fly when I have to).

heydorotheayoullgo · 13/07/2026 13:45

concertinacornflake · 13/07/2026 11:54

Yes individual context is important.
10k car miles + x flights + high non-travel consumption is different to
No car miles + 3 return flights + low non-travel consumption

There used to be more discussion about individual and comparative carbon footprints, this can be useful for assessing own usage.

Individual usage means nothing when corporations keep on polluting the planet

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:48

Bjorkdidit · 12/07/2026 21:37

I do extreme day trips. It's not about 'collecting' places, and I don't post about it on social media. It's an accessible way of seeing different places without having to get someone to feed the cats, and clean and tidy the house so they don't judge me. It's often cheaper than visiting other parts of the UK, and as well as visiting certain attractions, and using them as a recce for a proper holiday, I can do things you can't do in the UK such as swim in bathwater temperature sea.

It's never involved getting up at 2 am or being 'exhausted' as I'll sleep on the plane, or read my book if I don't fall asleep. I'm generally out 5 am to 10 pm so barely longer than a working day and a lot more fun. Arrive and get the bus/train from the airport to the centre, wander around, maybe get a map from the tourist info centre, have lunch, visit any planned attractions,snooze on the beach, sea swim, clean up, wander around some more, maybe have an ice cream or drink, back to the airport, look in duty free and fly back home.

If it's not something you're interested in, that's fine. But many people do enjoy doing them, so why not?

Edited

You don't care that it's appalling environmentally and massively increases your carbon footprint?

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:49

IDontHateRainbows · 12/07/2026 22:03

I did an extreme day trip to Paris last year from London and loved it! Meant we could spend money freely on wine cheese and croissants as we were only there the one day + no hotel costs. Early eurostar out, late one back had about 12 hours there.

IMO it's not a problem if you're doing it on eurostar

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:52

Bjorkdidit · 12/07/2026 22:29

A few flights a year within Europe has so little impact on the climate it's not worth counting.

Save your outrage for people who travel long haul multiple times a year, drive gas guzzlers, overconsume or those who have children, especially more than 2, because their carbon footprint is way higher than mine.

It does when there's lots of people doing it, you're not the only person doing this and it all adds up.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:57

HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear · 13/07/2026 06:55

The plane is only leaving because there's the medium-term demand for that number of flights. Obviously when people fly less, airlines reduce the number of flights!

This. I get so fed up with the argument of "well the plane is going anyway"

OhBotherSaidPoo · 13/07/2026 13:57

A few destinations work well, usually smaller cities with direct flights from your nearest airport, and excellent public transport.
Dublin was great, I flew from LCY at 0620, was in the city centre for breakfast where I found a lovely Irish cafe, explored the National Museum of Ireland, stopped for coffee, went on a walking tour exploring the city's history which was fantastic, had dinner in a pub in temple bar (not the temple bar), and listened to some street performers, then got coach back to the airport and was tucked up in bed with some Barry's tea by 2200.

Would do again.

3wouldbegood · 13/07/2026 14:06

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 22:32

if it's a couple of hours travel, it's not that outrageous.

that's the time many people spend commuting on a normal day!

Not much difference in time to take a 2 hours flight to Europe or a 2 hour -ish train to London for the day

I am not "exhausted" because I only slept a couple of hours the night before? I can imagine snoozing in the plane, coffee on arrival and good to go. It's not that tiring. I wouldn't do it every day for a month, but a short night? non issue

You understand that carbon emissions from flying are far higher than travelling by train, even for a journey of the same distance, yes? Which form of transport has the smallest carbon footprint? | Our World in Data

From an environmental point of view, it's a disastrous trend. I honestly think some people have just decided that the climate is fucked anyway so who cares? It's not rich westerners who will bear the worst brunt though. I find it disgusting.

Which form of transport has the smallest carbon footprint?

How can individuals reduce their emissions from transport?

https://ourworldindata.org/travel-carbon-footprint

TigTails · 13/07/2026 14:09

Onlyoneshot · 12/07/2026 22:11

Why not? Have you noticed the climate literally at all?

OP, YANBU, it's a hideous thing to do.

Not as damaging as having child or two.

basiically · 13/07/2026 14:27

I do it and love it.
Id rather do that than have kids.

ElectronBlue22 · 13/07/2026 14:38

Boomer55 · 13/07/2026 10:56

Did a day trip to Cairo, years ago, to see the pyramids.

They were fascinating - but a day there was enough.

Wow, I’ve never met anyone else who has done this! I did, nearly 30 years ago. A local holiday company was running one and I asked for that as my 18th birthday present, so my mum and I went. Pyramids, Sphinx, a camel ride, the museum then home.

Cairo is the longest day trip I’ve done from the UK, but have done many others to France, Belgium, Germany, Italy etc. Paris for lunch is nice on the Eurostar. Also managed Moscow from St Petersburg which is four hours each way on the high speed train so a long day but well worth it.

I don’t post photos on social media so definitely not doing it for clout. I don’t claim to have “done a place” - although most of the places I’ve been this way are also places I’ve spent longer in as well - but it’s nice to do something different for a day, see a museum, eat some interesting food, get some sun or shop at a Christmas market etc. And no need to pay for a cat sitter.

I don’t drive and don’t have children, so I’m saving carbon there.

Crankyandhot · 13/07/2026 14:59

backformoreofthesame · 12/07/2026 22:00

Let’s just pump
carbon dioxide into the atmosphere just for a few thrills

I mean the flight is still going to run whether I’m on it or not for a day trip.

purser25 · 13/07/2026 15:07

I used to do day trips by train from London I wasn’t able to leave my Mother to go on holiday but could just about do a day trip have done York Hull Liverpool Chester Stoke on Trent Cadbury World Birmingham the Black Country Museum and the Isle of Wight all from London it really felt like a mini break. Don’t think I would have the confidence to go abroad. Sadly I am restricted to very local days out now.

BinBasedKarma · 13/07/2026 15:13

I seem to remember that back in the nineties it was briefly possible to take a day trip by air to Timbuktu.

MageKing · 13/07/2026 15:17

SonnyHoney · 12/07/2026 23:26

I can agree with you there , we had that when we visited Rome. .

It was hard to get near monuments a d have a proper look, as there were people taking about dozens of pictures of themselves, not even looking at them, but just posing in front of them with no interest.

There are more tourists everywhere than ever before. People have always taken photos of themselves with famous monuments. When there were fewer tourists, this was less of an issue.

You sound terribly snobby. Only the "right" kind.of.people should travel, and the "right" people are people like me.

MadamDicey · 13/07/2026 15:20

It can be cheaper than a night out in edinburgh

Pedallleur · 13/07/2026 15:37

I did it years ago to Paris. First fight out and sat by Pont Neuf by 9.30am. Lovely crisp autumn day and I wandered about looking in shops, eating patisserie, bought fromage and had a great day. Last flight back. Yes I was tired the next day but I did it. Recently flew to Geneva. 90 mins flight, 5ins through passport control. I was going onwards but made me think that a day trip is possible. Also Nice and Milan and Northern Europe

Pedallleur · 13/07/2026 15:43

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:48

You don't care that it's appalling environmentally and massively increases your carbon footprint?

Had a discussion on a recent trip with a holiday companion who worked in the aircraft industry selling planes. I asked about the climate issue and he told me it's boomtime at the moment for private jets and especially helicopters (not 2 seat ones). He deals with high net worth individuals and they want better planes. Net Jets the private hire company has 4.5k planes on its books. Airlines aren't cancelling orders.

Ineffable23 · 13/07/2026 15:52

I think what I just can't understand is how it's even enjoyable:

Gate usually closes 45 mins before the flight at my local airport, and you definitely need to allow 20 minutes for security in case you get pulled over and 15 minutes to walk through the airport (might need to get the little internal airport train). So that's an hour twenty minimum. Passport control on the other end now usually takes 20 minutes even if you manage to overtake most of the queue. And then transport into the town or city usually takes 0.5-1hr.

So that's 2hrs 10 plus time to get to the airport (an hour for me plus parking time so say 1 HR 15, but it's got to be at least 30 minutes for almost everyone including walking to the station/parking) so that's 2 hrs 40, plus flight time. Even the south of France is a 2 hour flight. So then you're talking 9+ hours of travel for whF, say a 8 or 9 hour day.

There's no way I would choose to do that in the UK except if there was a family emergency, so I certainly wouldn't do it for fun.

harriettenightingale · 13/07/2026 15:55

Sartre · 13/07/2026 06:54

I spent some time with Holocaust researchers and one told me when she taught down in London a school would take a group of kids to Auschwitz for the day then come home that night. I was completely baffled by this and thought it was crazy, not in the least because hostels in Poland are cheap as chips but there you go.

There used to be special day trips with the Holocaust society for school children, I organised for two lower sixth formers to go from a college I worked at once.

Cappuccino5 · 13/07/2026 15:56

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 12/07/2026 23:30

Selfish pricks who only care about themselves and the gram. Pathetic

Someone’s jealous! I like my trips to be short and plentiful - doesn’t suit everyone but for me a packed itinerary on a time crunch is great fun and you’d be amazed by how much you can see/do if you plan well. If you’ve got unlimited annual leave, funds for lengthy hotel stays, pet sitting etc then that’s lovely but I (and many people) certainly don’t.

Recent horrors include..

  • Frequent day trips to London (we’re in Ireland)
  • Day trip to Amsterdam
  • 3 nights in New York
  • 3 days in South of France
  • 10 days in Australia

I often get the ‘aren’t you exhausted, surely it’s a waste travelling all that way for such a short amount of time’ type comments but my answers are a) you can sleep when you’re dead! If I want to relax I can easily do that at home and b) no, I’ve never felt that it’s a waste and am grateful for the variety of places and people I get to see.

harriettenightingale · 13/07/2026 15:57

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 13/07/2026 09:12

Can confirm. My dd did it. Holocaust Memorial Trust run trips from all over the UK, not sure if the plane is chartered, a few kids from lots of schools, she went to meetings and lectures beforehand. Left here at midnight for flight to Poland arrived back midnight next day.

Yes, that’s what I was referring to. ISTR it was a charter, and as you say lots of different schools. Our two won the chance to go from lots who were interested in the college and had to do a presentation about it.

heydorotheayoullgo · 13/07/2026 15:57

Cappuccino5 · 13/07/2026 15:56

Someone’s jealous! I like my trips to be short and plentiful - doesn’t suit everyone but for me a packed itinerary on a time crunch is great fun and you’d be amazed by how much you can see/do if you plan well. If you’ve got unlimited annual leave, funds for lengthy hotel stays, pet sitting etc then that’s lovely but I (and many people) certainly don’t.

Recent horrors include..

  • Frequent day trips to London (we’re in Ireland)
  • Day trip to Amsterdam
  • 3 nights in New York
  • 3 days in South of France
  • 10 days in Australia

I often get the ‘aren’t you exhausted, surely it’s a waste travelling all that way for such a short amount of time’ type comments but my answers are a) you can sleep when you’re dead! If I want to relax I can easily do that at home and b) no, I’ve never felt that it’s a waste and am grateful for the variety of places and people I get to see.

Yep, me too. I’d rather be busy!